Dr. Dog's House
3/12/2009 - A real Crackberry
Did it really have to happen this way?
A while ago, you learned that I had splurged for a new phone. A Blackberry Pearl, no less. So it's been riding around in its case in my pants pocket to various events recently. Like a thousand or so high school basketball games.
Umm, I guess I really have to be more careful when sitting down. At one gym, I sit on one end of the stage, lifting myself up by my hands and turning around to a sitting position. (Should someone my age really be doing that?) Evidently I wasn't as careful for my pricy new possession as I should have been. When I got home, I took it out to admire it ... and this is what I saw ...
The phone still works normally. It just looks a little cracked. I'm sure you have heard of all those people addicted to their Blackberries, madly texting messages all day long. That's why they call them Crackberries. Well, I think I have the genuine article.
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Recently I promised some new photos of the kitties. I've been taking them, just not posting them (or much of anything else). Well, what can I say? The weeks have been long and demanding for me, and I'm pretty worn out over weekends. My wife and I typically sit on the couch on weekend afternoons, after doing something like lunch or shopping, and it's time to relax. Really relax.
And we do. We doze off together. In winter, when the living room is a little cold, we have a quilt over our legs. She leans on my shoulder, and soon she is dozing. On this day, Charlie came around and invited herself up into my lap. Pretty soon she was taking a nap, too. So I had two sleepy females next to me ...
You know that Charlie is very special to me. Over the last few months, Max and I have been getting to know each other better, too. When my wife goes to bed, Max is in the hallway ahead of me, meowing, and goes into a spare bedroom. I follow him, and we play Pet the Kitty. Max is all happy and purring loudly ... but he just can't sit still. We are sitting on the bed, where he usually sleeps, as I pet him, but soon he hops onto the floor and then up into the window. I get up to pet him in the window, he enjoys it, but then he hops on the floor and back on the bed. And then it's time for another round of Pet the Kitty. Sooner or later Max decides it's time for a wash, and I depart around then.
Max's favorite place seems to be sitting in windows, looking outside. Day or night, he likes his windows ...
Charlie likes to visit me late at night, often settling in my lap as I pet her. Recently, though, I noticed that pens were disappearing from my desk. Was I absentmindedly pocketing them? Was my wife taking them?
One night, the real culprit struck ... and my camera was in reach ...
She pulled the pen down to the chair, grabbed it in the middle, hopped down to the floor and walked out the door with it. Carried it down the hall. At other times we have come across pencils with a host of tiny little toothmarks on them. Think we know who is doing that.
Sometimes when Charlie is visiting me late at night on the computer, Max enters the room. On this night, Charlie went behind the monitor--and Max followed, creating this coming-and-going shot ...
and this one, after Charlie turned around and walked back ...
Back in early February, we saw a catnip mouse at the store. It was a larger and more realistic-looking mouse than usual, and we said what the heck. The cats will enjoy it. That's what we thought. Understand one thing: We're not cats.
We let Charlie get the first chance at it. She played with it for a while ...
Then Max came around. Whatcha got now, Charlie? ...
After a while, Charlie went back to her other mouse. It seemed more interesting ...
And how about you, Max? Aren't you interested in the new mouse, either? ...
Apparently not. Must be time for another nap.
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Basketball season rolls on. On of my teams, the one that lost 10 straight games during the season and finished 5-15 after winning its final two regular season games, won both its district games and will be going to Houghton for the regionals next Monday. They beat a 16-4 squad last night. Hey, playoffs: You never know.
So that's where I'll be next Monday night. Let's hope the weather behaves. It was -10F this morning. But they're predicting highs in the 40s this weekend. I'm ready for it.
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3/8/2009 - Left in the dark
I'm still in search of my blogging mojo. I know I can find it ... someday, somewhere.
For better or worse, I am blaming high school basketball season for the absent mojo. After all, since the start of the year I've been gone at games three and four nights a week after a regular day at work. So when I finally get to stay home for the final hours of the day, I'm tired and don't feel very creative. All the basketball doesn't leave a lot of time for other pursuits. Last week, I had games on four consecutive nights, and I was very stressed out. My back, my neck, my shoulders were so tight.
But pretty soon I'll have to find a new excuse. Basketball season is nearly over. The two girls teams I cover both lost during their district tournament last week. The two boys teams start district play Monday night, and I expect one to drop out right away. The other could go on a while, but we're getting pretty near the end. Soon, I'll have a little more time for creative pursuits.
The weather got a little warmer last week--even warm enough to melt some of the snow. Tonight we're going back down close to zero, and we have a couple days later this week forecast for highs below 20. But it will be easier to take with a lot of the snow melted. Why, you can even see patches of brown grass in parts of the back yard now!
We had our own adventure one night last week. The basketball game went long (last home game of the season), and I didn't leave for home until about 9 p.m. The trip home is along a highway that goes through some hills in a rural area, so I expected it to be dark. But the yellow flashing light at the first intersection after the hills was not working, and the bar at that corner was dark. Strange. I went further and saw that I wasn't seeing any lighted houses along the road. Strange. All the way into town--the plaza west of downtown, the McDonald's, the gas stations as you enter the downtown area--it was dark. Strange.
The house was just as dark as I got out of the car, and I thought of something to tell my wife when I came through the door: "Honey, we'd better get that motion-sensor light checked out again--it didn't come on!"
She reported the power had gone out at about 8:40 p.m. (cause unknown). "OK," I said, "but didn't you want to watch ER?" Several candles had been lighted upstairs and downstairs. We sat on the living room couch, and it was just bright enough for me to notice that the cats were walking around, acting puzzled. We talked for a while. Then I held a little flashlight while she got the cats' food ready, while she took her pills, and then we went upstairs. After all, what is there to do when the power is off and you can't watch TV or get on the computer and the house is only lit by candles? What can you do?
My wife came up with an idea.
And just as we were finishing up, the lights came back on. That didn't rush the post-coital cuddling, but after a while she drifted off to sleep, and I got up for a few minutes, to reset clocks and switch off the lights that were on.
Then, two nights later, I went through the house again, changing the clocks once again because of the arrival of daylight time.
I enjoy seeing the sun up longer in the evening. Of course, it will be darker in the morning, but the time change (whenever it happens) means brighter evenings and the promise of warmer weather ahead.
I have some new (well, relatively new; you haven't seen them, anyway) pictures of the cats, and I'll write something up for that pretty soon. I haven't felt very creative with the camera lately, but the arrival of warmer weather should encourage me to get out and around.
After all, there's more to life that the sound of a rubberized ball endlessly bouncing on a hardwood floor. Isn't there?
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3/2/2009 - Like a bicycle?
Is blogging like riding a bicycle? In that once you learn how, you never forget?
I'm not sure. I wanted to write something this weekend, but I was having writer's block. Don't know how to start, what to say, which of my experiences are worth writing about and which aren't worth the bother.
There is news ... but I'll save that for another time. Hopefully, I'll be writing more often again in the days to come. But the wintertime blahs came over me pretty good this year. Good news is that I wasn't ill. Outside of being sick of winter.
That's because our brutal winter continues to be, well, brutal. We had snow a few days ago--just three inches, but it was accompanied by colder air and high winds. The winds died off, leaving behind conditions straight out of January. A couple days ago, we didn't get above +5F (-15C). Overnight, the predicted low was -23 F! That's, like, -30 C. Today, Sunday, we drove out of town to visit my mom. It was sunny, and the temperature was a balmy 15F. Tonight, the forecast calls for minus 26F, and we're at minus 20F already.
But they are promising highs in the 30s in a few day. Well, we'll see.
On Friday evening, one of those frigid evenings last week, I didn't have a basketball game, so my wife and I decided to go for a fish fry. This time we chose a place we hadn't visited before--a restaurant that was well-known way back when. As a gimmick, they had signs posted all over Wisconsin. "M------ Cafe. 154 miles."
But that was then. It's gone through several changes of ownership and new names. They're open just one night a week now--Fridays, for fish fries. We decided to give them a try.
Don't know if we will be back. Our table was in a back room that was halfway between cool and cold. I had a sweater on, but I still decided to put my coat over the back of my chair for insulation. The fish (we chose cod) was OK, but there were just two pieces of it per order. And to top it off, they didn't take credit/debit cards. (Yes, I had money for the bill.) The price was rather high for two fish fries and two sodas. So I think next time, we'll go somewhere else. If nothing else, the next fish fry should be a little warmer.
On Saturday, I had another first experience. I covered a biathlon. That's like the Olympic event that combines cross-country skiing and rifle shooting. I remembered seeing telephoto shots of a group of skiers bunched together on the trail, coming right towards the camera, and a line of marksmen lying prone on the ground, squeezing off shots at the target.
Ha! As it turned out, the competitors went out on the course whenever they wanted: There was no mass start. If you got there early, you went out early. If you arrived later, you started later. So there would be no mass of people competing for position--I'd get just one or (if I was lucky) two skiers at a time.
It was a lovely, sunny day, about 15 F. I decided to go by a shooting station anyway, but it was a little more than a quarter mile down the trail. So down the trail I trudged, trying not to mess up the Nordic skiers' tracks on the trail, sort of like a pair of railroad tracks. I got there, talked to the judge there and waited. And waited. And waited.
Finally we saw a skier coming down the trail towards us. Finally, a picture. He fired his shots at the metal targets mounted about 50 yards away. Bangplink! Bangplink! Bangplink! Bangplink! Bangplink! He hit the targets on all five shots. He gave me his name and left. OK. So far so good.
The next competitor was a woman. She fired at the target. Bang! Bang! Bang! Bangplink! Bang! One of five. She told me something as she left, something I hear a lot at such events: "Don't put me in the paper!"
Occupational hazard up here. Adults (especially) are horribly shy people, or so they would have you believe. You would think their toes would curl up and they'd die of embarrassment if they made the paper.
Later, another guy showed up. He had a fancy hat and a very expensive-looking gun. He fired. Bang. Bangplink. Bang. Bang. Bang. Costly equipment is only as good as the person using it.
We waited another 20 minutes or so. Finally, a man and a woman. The woman was one of those shrinking violets I just wrote about, but she was just along for the skiing, anyway--her husband was the competitor, and she gave me his name. OK, I'll settle for that.
Good enough for now--the walkie-talkies told us no more competitors were on course. So I started the long trudge back down the trail. When I finally reached the end, Mr. Fancy Gun was talking to another course worker there. He noticed me and walked over with a smile. "Just so you know," he said, "I'm in the Witness Protection Program. So you can't use my picture."
I bit my tongue. A few minutes later, as I was putting the camera bag in the car, he was walking past, towards the lodge building, and I muttered--just loud enough for him to hear--"Witness Protection Program!" I didn't add "my ass!" at the end, but I didn't have to.
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Last time I wrote (I think), it seemed as if the basketball season would last forever. Now the girls regular season is over, and their playoffs start Monday. The boys schedule is one week behind. The end is in sight! Hallelujah!
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2/15/2009 - A bad blogger
I've got to be honest with myself. I've been a bad blogger. (And, by the way, that's "bad" in the traditional sense. I'm not hip enough to use "bad" in any other way.)
I've got my excuses, I guess. The big one is the pace of work, which has been horrendous. Yeah, I know, I should be grateful to have a job, much less one that I actually enjoy. But it gets a lot less enjoyable because of the rush of things.
Lately, it has been oodles of basketball. Three and four nights of basketball per week, after the normal day in the office. As you may know, basketball has limited appeal to me in the first place, and my nights have been focused mainly on free throws and dribbles and inbounds passes. And free throws. Or did I mention that already? There have been that many.
That plus several special editions (working on stories for them) have filled my work hours pretty thoroughly.
The end of the season isn't far away, though. A month from now, it should all be over.
I've been doing other things when I have spare time. Inspired by a recent movie I saw, I am trying to learn chess. To do this, I am following tutorials in the Chessmaster 9000 computer game. But some of the tutorials--mainly examples where I am supposed to implement the lesson I have just learned--take a lot of time to complete. If I don't finish it, I have to go back to the beginning when I try it again. Which doesn't sound right. I am on "discoveries" right now.
I have also taken the plunge and invested in a new cell phone. The cost of the phone isn't that astounding ($20 with a two-year agreement), but the leap in faith was opting for a monthly plan that costs $30 more than what I had been paying per month--in order to get data/internet/e-mails on my "phone."
The word "phone" scarely describes what these "devices" are capable of. In my case, I opted for a Blackberry Pearl, a jazzy red one. At least, in a concession to what the item is really for, I chose a ringtone that sounds a lot like an old-time telephone. How quaint!
My friend, B, and I have been writing a lot. She has become a good friend. Frankly, we are discussing the chances of us getting together some time. (I am poly, and so are B and her husband.) It won't be easy--for one thing, the distance between us is pretty impressive. For another, because of her job she can't take vacations in June and July, which are quiet months for me. Where there's a will, there's a way, of course. What that way is remains to be seen.
Anyway ... I suppose I should report on what I did for Valentine's Day. I worked all morning. After lunch with my wife, she and I did something together: We went grocery shopping! That included getting a movie at the video place. More on that later.
(By the way, you may be wondering how I observe Valentine's Day with the other women I am emotionally close to, S and B. The answer is, I don't. They don't even get an e-card. Valentine's Day is exclusively reserved to be observed with my primary sweetie, the way S and B should spend it with their primaries. S has been married to her husband for 20 years, and B married her husband 31 years ago.)
Back to my observance of the day: Late in the afternoon, my wife told me where she wanted to go to eat--a restaurant in town, where they serve steaks. But it was too late for reservations, so we needed a plan B. We went to the place just across the border (in Wisconsin) where we got for fish fries. They had a surf and turf available, but we were thinking steak.
In the end, neither of us ordered steak. She opted for broasted chicken, and I chose beer-battered cod. A nice meal. We agreed that we will hold off our steak dinner for about another month, to celebrate the end of basketball season (after the final team I cover has been eliminated from the post-season tournament).
As for the movie we chose, it was "Evening." We both read over the box at the video place and decided to go for it. Here is the link to the Amazon page and write-up, in case you haven't seen that one.
After watching it, she fed the kitties, and then we went to bed. She lit a couple candles, we snuggled up and started stroking each other ...
And then it was morning!
It's now late at night, not so far from midnight, so I'm signing off. Another busy day tomorrow. Better get some sleep.
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1/15/2009 - Serious cold from "the last frontier"
I don't know how snoopy/curious you are about such things, but have you ever looked into the "cold case" at your local grocery store? That's the big freezer where they store things like frozen veggies, frozen pizzas and ice cream, keeping them nice and cold before you put them in your shopping cart.
At our local store, there's a digital thermometer inside. At times I look. It usually reads something like -10 F.
Tuesday morning, when I looked at our thermometer, it read -7F. Yes, it's January, and another cold front has moved into our area. It was +7 when I went to bed Monday night, but the front was just moving in.
On Tuesday night, I was at another game. It was -6 when I went to the game. On the trip home, about 8:30 p.m., the car's thermometer got down to -21F. We got to -26 just before midnight. It was up to -15 when I got up Wednesday morning.
But our cold is peanuts compared to other places. How would you like to be in Grand Forks, N.D.? They were in the -30s Tuesday morning. One of my blog friends lives there. They "warmed up" to -16 that afternoon. Sounds balmy. Right now (I just checked), it's -23F.
But if you want balmy, there's only one place you can go: Alaska.
That's where one of my friends lives, the one I refer to as B. She and her husband are a poly couple who live in the Fairbanks area. Yes, Fairbanks, in the middle of the Alaskan interior. Over the last few weeks, it got rather nippy up there. Always an interesting topic, so I have been asking B what it's like to be in Alaska when it gets really, really, really, really cold.
Both B and her husband, I should explain, are originally from Ohio and first came to Alaska courtesy of the U.S. Air Force, which has a few bases there. After he retired, they moved back to Alaska.
Around Christmas, while their kids were visiting, the cold started getting real. "We continued to have mild temps until later this afternoon," she wrote at the time, "when the temps started dropping. We are down to about 12 below and are expected to hit 35 to 40 below by morning." That was the day after they went to a nearby hot spring to take their visitors for a nice outdoor soak. "It is quite the novelty when entertaining visitors in winter."
On Dec. 30, they woke up to -45. "Looks like we may see -50 tonight and another few days of really cold temps. By Tuesday, it should be a balmy low of -28 and high of -18. At least these are manageable temps. The cars hate the cold temps lower than -30's."
When they visited friends on New Year's Eve, "The temp was -50 degrees, so we kept the car plugged in at our friends' and started it to let run for about 15 minutes every couple of hours. When we left, shortly after midnight, the tires had gone square on the bottom so we bounced slowly down the road until the rubber softened a bit and rounded out. It is a very weird feeling! That generally doesn't happen until the temps hit -40 or so.
"We are still hovering around -38, but that is much easier on the cars than the -50 stuff. It is advised that we plug in the cars when the temps get below 20 degrees, as it helps with the air pollution if the engines are a tad bit warmer when starting. It is imperative once the temps dip below -25 or so unless engines are started and let to run every couple of hours throughout the day. "
Many people in Alaska get timers they switch on a few hours before they need to get going, and they have automatic starters so they can start cars from inside a house or office.
B works in Fairbanks, about a 20-mile drive from her home. "In this kind of weather it is horrid. I will have to leave about 1/2 hour earlier than usual, as the drive will be at about 20 miles an hour! Visibility goes down to about nil at times like this, which makes it very slow going. You can't really see cars in front of you." That is because of a phenomenon known as ice fog.
Around that time, The Weather Channel showed a picture of a sign in Fairbanks that showed a temperature of -62. No, said B. They had visited a friend that night for dinner and had seen the sign themselves--the friend called the weather station and learned it was just -39.
"When we headed home, it showed the same temp of -62F and it was still -39F at the airport. When we got home, our temp was -52F"--where they live, their temperature is usually 10 to 15 degrees colder than Fairbanks.
This photo, from the Fairbanks newspaper's website, shows some local officers documenting the occasion ...
She told me about January 1989, when the all-time coldest reading for Fairbanks was set: -69.
"Yes, we were here then, too. Most of the month was bitter cold, and the schools finally closed as parents were keeping their kids home. In a crazy sort of way, everyone hopes we see a new record low so we can tell about that too!"
I asked her about the ice fog. "The ice fog is caused by an inversion phenomena taking place when the cold, cold air holds all the motor exhaust close to the earth and won't let it dissipate into the atmosphere. You really start to notice it around -30 or so. No sign of it when it is even 5-10 degrees warmer.
"The ice fog is actually vapor and not liquid, so it does not freeze on the windshield. It can leave a bit of a filmlike substance on the windshield. As it doesn't freeze on the windshield, you don't have to worry about stopping and scraping. It is just dangerous, as when it is really bad it is difficult to see the taillights of the car in front, which makes it easy to run up onto someone."
You see ice fog in the -62F photo above. Here is another look, from a photo shown on The Weather Channel ...
See what she means?
Another problem she mentioned, one I have noticed when it is below zero here, is ice forming on the inside windows of the car from people breathing. The defroster can take care of the windshield, but the side windows can get frosted up pretty quickly.
Where I live, I don't plug in my car. Some people in the U.P. have engine heaters--I don't. It doesn't get that cold that often, and I only live a short distance from my office--I can always walk.
Up in Alaska, though, it's different.
"Any place of business is going to have plug-ins for employees," B wrote. "Stores do not have them for customers, but sometimes you can find them and use them if not filled up. My office has a parking lot full of them, which is probably why I have to pay $220 a year for a parking decal." ...
B said her car is equipped with "an engine block heater, an oil pan heater, a transmission heater, a battery blanket and a trickle charger. All those are plugged into a junction box which has a heavy duty extension cord on it that sticks out the front end of the car" ...
"I have a license plate surround that has space to wrap an extension cord around it so I have it handy each morning when I need it. It keeps everything neat and tidy and I know exactly where the cord is when I need it." It also has a light--so if the outlet isn't working, she will know right away ...
What does the well-dressed Alaskan wear when it's so cold? "To head out in the morning, I wear a polar fleece jacket with a parka over it and I wrap a very, very long scarf around my neck a few times to keep warm. I wear a pair of polar fleece gloves inside a pair of leather gloves, and I wear snow boots made in Canada. I have a heavier pair of boots I carry in my car in the event I would have to walk for any great distance. Let's hope that never happens."
A few days ago, she reported "We were back down to -46F this morning and the fog was in full bloom. It was all I could do to not call in sick. I was sick all right ... sick of the ice fog and traveling in this weather!!"
I asked her about one more aspect of life in Alaska: the northern lights. She replied:
"There is never a time when I feel more humble or insignificant as when I am standing in my yard or on the road and watching the northern lights as they swirl across the sky. They are magnificent, breath-taking and always a pleasure to happen upon without notice ...
"It is as if the heavens come alive. Green is the most common color, but often times they are filled with blue, pink and red. It is a magnificent display, to say the least. Sometimes, they appear as a still streak or two in the sky and other times they are dancing back and forth. We see them most often when we are driving [home from Fairbanks]. There are no street lights along the highway except at the overpasses, which makes viewing a delight.
"Some people do not realize that the northern lights are above the earth all the time. It is only when the conditions are right that they can be seen. The intensity of them has something to do with sunspot activity. The best time of the year to see them is around the equinoxes, or equinoces, if you prefer.
"We have a natural hot spring, which is located about 60 miles outside of Fairbanks. The Japanese come over in droves during the winter months with the intention of procreating under the northern lights. There is some sort of blessing that accompanies this ritual."
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Update: As I get ready to post this, it's -9 here. In Fairbanks, the cold wave is over: The temperature stands at +34F.
You know, it's been some time since we've had +34 here.
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1/6/2009 - True colors
I musta been a good guy last year, after all.
My birthday went practically unnoticed by those around me (though several of my efx2 and Vox friends remembered! Thank you!). And my wife and I had agreed among ourselves not to exchange Christmas presents this year. But a mysterious box arrived at my house on the second day of 2009. I had not ordered it. Neither had my wife. Or anyone else in the family.
It's not that I didn't know something was coming and that it had to do with the Detroit Red Wings hockey team. I had gotten a hint ... but just a hint ... from the sender. Now it had arrived. I got the scissors, opened the box, got past some airbags and a card and finally arrived at something black. And red.
Within moments, it was out of the box--and on my body. A black jacket with red sleeves and the Red Wings logo proudly in front and back. If you couldn't recognize it, "Red Wings" was spelled out under the logo on the back.
So cool. Such a nice gift. But would it fit? Only one way to find out. I picked it up, stuck an arm in the right sleeve, stuck an arm in the other sleeve, realized to my satisfaction that I was not trying to put it on upside down or inside out. I pulled it over my chest and snapped up the snaps. It fit just right.
I read the card. It was very moving. The kind of words you don't hear from everyone. I don't, anyway.
Of course, I had to get some pictures of my new prize. My wife took these shots behind the house.
How cool is that?
It came from a close friend of mine; we became friends about three years ago via our blogs. Like me, she is a devoted Detroit Red Wings fan. Unlike me, she lives in California. Unlike me, she doesn't have cable and can't watch any hockey games at home. No satellite dish, either. That's the way it is for her.
So about two years ago the lightbulb flashed on over my head: Why don't I record some of the Red Wings games I watch at home? I have a DVD recorder and it works well. I record the games, burn them onto DVDs and mail them to her from time to time. So ever since then, I have. Along the way, we became close friends. Though I think we were close friends already.
I have been a Red Wings fan since about 1978. That's the year we moved to the U.P. from Milwaukee and I got to see hockey regularly on TV for the very first time. So I tried to watch them every time they were on--even through the infamously bad "40-point season." They reached the conference finals the next year, and they have been playing high quality hockey ever since (with an occasional breakdown early in the playoffs).
When the Wings won the Stanley Cup last spring, I sent along a couple other goodies: a souvenir magazine from Sports Illustrated, a Stanley Cup T-shirt I spotted at K-Mart and a baseball cap with the Red Wings' red and white logo on it. Earlier, I sent her a DVD set of great/memorable Red Wings games from the lats 10 years or so--they have won three Stanley Cups in that time and been near the top nearly every year.
I wrote her. telling her how cool the jacket is and how overwhelmed I am. She wrote back, saying no thanks are needed: It's for all the stuff I have done for her over the last couple years.
Maybe so, but I'm amazed at my good luck anyway. The cool new jacket has to stay on the coat rack inside for a while--midwinter in the U.P. is a little too cool for it. (We had -20F this morning). But in a month or two, when the regular season nears its end and the playoffs start, it will be warmer, and I can wear my true colors.
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12/31/2008 - Auld Lang Syne
At last. We've reached the final day of 2008. There are a few exceptions, but I think most of us will be quite happy to see '08 over and done with.
Some things were good. I made some new friends, both in the blogosphere and in real life. I lost a cat but gained two more. My wife and I got over a little crisis that unexpectedly popped up a couple months ago.
In 2009 ... well, who knows? I want to visit some friends and see some new places. I always say that, don't I? Whether I make it happen this year remains to be seen. The biggest impediment is the demands that my job puts on me. And I must say, just having had another birthday, that I'm looking forward to/hoping for less work and more free time in the future. Read that however you want.
Our plans for tonight are extremely quiet. Maybe we'll watch a movie. Maybe we'll go out for supper. We'll probably watch the ball drop at Times Square (at 11 p.m. local time) and then head upstairs to end the new year right. Most likely we'll be asleep by the time 2009 actually starts.
Sooner or later they will play Auld Lang Syne, and I will get nostalgic about friends who have ... gotten away from me. Friends who are out there somewhere -- somewhere I don't know. Somewhere over the rainbow.
In many cases, it's not due to a falling out or illness or even death. It's due to efx2's ongoing problems over the last two years. Several times efx2 had seemlingly gone down for the last time--but a couple weeks later, it was back up and running (after a fashion). Backups were lost. How many times have we had to restart/reogranize our blogs here? A new efx2blogs.info was formed. Haven't heard a progress report on that for some time now.
Along the way, many gave up and either set up sites at Blogger or Vox or Facebook or elsewhere ... or else simply gave up on blogging altogether. It's understandable, if unfortunate.
So as I hear Auld Lang Syne this year, I'll be thinking of Squilla and Zarafa and Honeychild and Honeyvizer and Miss_T and grnidlady and Vampyre and a few others who don't write so often any more. I think about them as lost friends, and I wonder what they are doing and how they are doing, and I wish that, wherever they are, that they are happy.
Because they were dear to me. And I miss them.
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We got back home from a fast trip to Oshkosh late yesterday afternoon. In all, we were gone for only 26 hours or so.
We got away much later than planned Monday afternoon, finally driving south as still another cold front blew into the area. Hardly any snow was falling, but a lot of it was blowing around and around, from west to east--crosswise, from right to left, as I drove. One section of road (which works well as a shortcut most of the time) was icy because snow had been drifting across it and was mashed down by car tires. Some places were just plain icy, and we had to cut our speeds accordingly.
For that reason, we didn't get to Oshkosh until about 6 p.m. Then things happened quickly. S, her husband and her 4-year-old grandson came to the motel, and we left for a restaurant with a big buffet selection. We ate well. Yumm.
From there, we went to the motel, changed into swimsuits and enjoyed the motel's pool for an hour or so. We started in the pool, then went to the whirlpool. (The last time we had been together, back in August, we were camping at a small farm and didn't have to bother with swimsuits.)
At first we were the only people there. Then, a big group of high school kids--30 or 40 of them--invaded. Several busloads of kids were at the motel, too. For a while, I shared the whirlpool with four or five nubile young ladies. But that was about the time we had to go back to the motel room. S, her husband and the grandchild changed clothes and left.
We rejoined them (minus the grandson) on Tuesday morning at their house, for breakfast. A nice meal--omelettes, bacon, toast and a homemade Orange Julius. We met their newest cat, who seems to be bipolar. He can be very sweet when you hold him, but he also is a little devil--very destructive, according to S. He used to be called Helen Wheels. Then they discovered she was a he, so now he's officially known as Trouble.
We exchanged some gifts. S gave us cookies and other baked treats. We gave them some blueberry muffins and poppyseed cake that my wife made. I gave S's husband a Three Stooges DVD set--we have many similar tastes, and the Stooges are one of them.
The overriding issue was the weather. I had resigned myself to facing some weather problems--yet another system was blowing through Wisconsin. It left about an inch of snow on my car overnight, but it seemed to be moving away Tuesday morning--no snow was falling as I drove to their place and no snow was falling later as we drove back north towards Green Bay and then Iron Mountain. Packerland was quiet with very light snow. It snowed harder about 40 miles north of Lambeau Field, but just for maybe a half hour--we drove out of it as we got closer to Iron Mountain. We arrived back home about 5 p.m.
At about 6:30, I called S to let them know we were back home safely. She reported they were having a blizzard back at their place.
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To start the new year, we plan to sleep late, watch the Rose Parade from Pasadena and then the outdoor hockey game between the Red Wings and Blackhawks from Wrigley Field. That ought to be cool!
Nothing more to say this year except this: Despite everything that seems to be happening with the economy, I hope all of you have a happy new year and that 2009 will be better to you than 2008 was.
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12/28/2008 - The unplanned holiday
Well, for not having a plan, our ad-libbed holiday observance went pretty well.
For one thing, we can thank the Midwest's stormy weather for keeping my older son, Phil, around for one extra day. His original plan was to leave us Friday morning and drive back to Detroit via Chicago--he likes the improv comedy clubs in Chi-Town and was going to stay there that night.
But though he doesn't follow the weather closely, he was still aware of the big storms bearing down on the Second City. Forecasts called for much warmer than normal temperatures, bringing in very heavy rain and a good chance of flooding. That was enough to change his itinerary. As he put it, "Chicago traffic is bad enough the way it is."
So he spent much of his Friday playing games at his brother's apartment. In the evening, he, my wife and I went out for a pizza. Then he went out to meet some classmates at a local restaurant--just four, I guess. It was arranged through Facebook. He got back home, we watched some stuff for a little while, and then he went up to bed.
He left for home Saturday at about 6 a.m.--had something going down in Detroit that night involving the new Jim Carrey movie. He made it home OK--had to deal with rain and a lot of fog along the way, but he didn't have any trouble with it.
Back here, I had to do some work on the paper Saturday. Then, some shopping. Some work assignments. Chipping ice off the back porch, in preparation for the freezing rain forecast that night, just before a snowstorm. The freezing rain never developed, and the heaviest snow went east of us. It just got windy.
As for Christmas Day itself: We all got up late. Dave came over late in the morning, and we gathered in the living room to watch some stuff on TV. We had decided to do a giftless Christmas, but I had some "late birthday gifts" for the two boys.
After lunch, we drove down to see my mom at the nursing home. As luck would have it, she was having a good day, and her face positively lit up when she saw Phil again for the first time in a year. (She sees the rest of us fairly often, and I'm there to visit nearly every week.) Very happy. We visited for the better part of two hours and drove back home. That night, we watched "Indiana Jones and the Crystal Skull" together.
Another adventure awaits my wife and I on Monday. We plan to drive down to visit S and her husband. Just a short visit--I'm taking them out to dinner, and then we're going to enjoy the pool at our motel. The visit has been tentative for a while due to the very iffy weather and her husband's back problems--he hurt something while shoveling snow a few weeks ago and has been out of work with back pain. S's letter on Saturday says he is doing better.
Still, I phoned her tonight to make sure. We're also keeping an eye on the forecast--more snow is forecast for Tuesday, the day we would be driving back north. Doesn't seem too bad right now. The weather has been ugly all month, anyway.
I tried to do some writing on the computer last night after my wife went to bed. But Charlie had other priorities. You should know the story by now. She invited herself into my lap to get petted and cuddled. Purr, purr, purr. This time, I was able to take a couple pictures--with one hand!--of the big, happy kitty. And here you are ...
After a while, my leg started falling asleep. I started fidgeting, and she hopped off ...
About five minutes later, I was sitting quietly again, and Charlie came back. This time, she faced the other way ...
One more thing about the cats: They seemed a little confused when the bedroom was closed during Phil's visit. That is usually Max's domain--he liked to lie down on the bed and look out the window--and they aren't used to closed doors.
So at night, Charlie and Max would camp out in front of that door for a while--since it is next to the computer room, I could keep an eye on things. Then they chase each other downstairs. Their usual exercise just before bed.
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12/24/2008 - In search of a plan
I have been wanting to write for a while, but dang it, life just keeps on getting in the way. But I've got a chance now, so I'm going for it.
The main purpose of this entry is simply to wish one and all a happy holiday season, whatever the holiday of your choosing is. May you enjoy it and may it bring you the happiness and peace that it should.
We're going to the Christmas Eve service at 10 p.m. tonight. It could be pretty cold when we get out again--it's supposed to dip to about -6F overnight. But that's just in keeping with the weather we have had lately. To condense it to so many words, this has been a brutal December over most of the U.S. Not only in terms of weather, either.
Today was also my birthday. The morning part was spent at the office, working on stories till noon, when it closed for the day. After lunch, I went out to the local football field, where I got pictures at the annual Xmas Eve Bowl, played between grads of the local high school. It was a fun game. They played for about two hours right on the varsity football field (buried under more than a foot of snow) in 20-degree weather.
Plans for the next few hours are very indefinite. I know we bought several bags of frozen ravioli last week--that's a favorite of both my older son and myself. My older son arrived back here last night about 8 p.m., driving up from the Detroit area and dealing with a lot of blowing snow along the way. He called me at the office Tuesday afternoon for an analysis of the weather still lying ahead of him. I was pleased to inform him that nearly all the bad stuff was now behind him.
Within two hours of his arrival, he managed to (A) hook up his laptop to my wireless router, (B) consume most of two pizzas (with our help), (C) made friends with the cats, (D) watched a couple Three Stooges films and then (E) went to his room to surf the net. The cats (two of whom--Charlie and Max--are spending their first Christmas with us) seemed confused--what's someone doing in that room? First time anyone has used that room since they joined the family.
The third cat, our 16-year-old cat, is named Maggie because of something she did with Phil long, long ago. When we first got Maggie, Phil would hold her in his lap, and she would suck on his T-shirt. The lightbulb ignited: In a moment of inspiration, I christened her Maggie, after the pacifier-sucking member of the Simpsons.
My friend, B, who lives in Alaska, told me that her two sons and a daughter-in-law all made it home safely--but not without some adversity. One of the sons lives in Portland, Ore., and she told me he had to walk 20 blocks--with his suitcase--to get to the train line that went to the Portland airport. About 10 inches of snow had shut down the city bus system. The other son and his wife came from New York City and had a long, long, long day at the airports. But they're home now, and that's what counts.
I hope B and her husband and the rest of their family have a happy holiday season. My friend S is having about 15 over for a nice Christmas dinner together, and I hope they have a happy time. And the same wish goes out to all of you, wherever you are, however you spend it.
As for us, we're going to visit my mom during the afternoon. Plans after that are highly indefinite. We'll come up with something. But sometimes just being together is enough.
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12/2/2008 - Seasonal transition
Last Friday morning, I covered the last football game of the season.
Tuesday night, I covered the first basketball game of the season. Four days later. So I guess you can see I'm not going to have too much idle time on my hands. At least for the next few months, the trips will be a lot shorter.
Facts about this trip:
--The only driving I had to do was to and from the school. From there, I rode buses down to Detroit and back.
--Hardly saw any snowflakes during the days we were gone. A few flakes on the way back, but not enough to get the road wet. Mr. Lake Effect was taking a few days off.
--Our team lost 40-0. It was expected. I won't get into everything, but they went up against a powerhouse private school. There is a basic unfairness when small public schools go against large private schools. I could say more about it.
--I road in the bus with the JV team and the cheerleaders. It was a fun time and a good experience. The kids are fun to be with.
--We stayed the first night at the Comfort Inn in Mount Pleasant. We stayed the second night at the Crown Royal Hotel in Auburn Hills, north of Detroit. The Crown Royal is a much more opulent place--but the beds at Comfort Inn were wider and the room a little larger.
--My wife stayed home--and yet I had someone else in my bed both nights! I'll let you ponder that for a minute or so.
--My older son was able to come over for Thanksgiving--he lives about 20 minutes away from the Crown Royal. We arrived about 3:30 p.m., and he came over about a half hour after I called. We had a pizza together in the hotel's bar and talked for about two hours. It was a good visit.
--On Thursday morning, the wake-up call came at 5:30 a.m. On Friday morning, it came at 4:45 a.m. We had to check out, get breakfast downstairs, get on the bus and ride to Ford Field in downtown Detroit. You will be happy to know that they had eliminated the big stink at the field left by the Detroit Lions the day before.
--There was a welcome-home celebration when the bus got back to town--at about 12:45 a.m. Saturday morning. Three police cars and two fire trucks, sirens blaring, escorted the buses back to town, and there was a crowd of about 100 welcoming the players back. From there, the bus went back to the school, where my car was parked. I got back home about 1:30 a.m. The next morning, I was back at the office, working on my story.
--I had my cell phone along, of course, and called home either twice or three times a day. My younger son spent Thanksgiving with my wife, and they watched a couple movies together.
--We had four people in our motel room: a team trainer, the athletic director, a statistician and me. I think the trainer is the youngest of the four, but not by much. One night (in Mount Pleasant) we sat around the coaches' room, enjoying pizza and beer (in most cases) and talking football. I shared the bed with the athletic director.
I'm glad I didn't have to do all that driving, even if the weather conditions were pretty good for Michigan in late November.
Anyway, I'm back now and getting into basketball season. The girls started tonight; the boys begin next week. I have to write preview articles for them--I did the girls on Sunday.
And it's nice to be back home again.
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11/24/2008 - Guess where I'm going?
All this fall, I have been wondering whether I would have a normal Thanksgiving this year.
On Saturday, I learned the answer.
The answer is yes.
Yes, I will have a normal Thanksgiving--normal for me for the last four years, at least. Each of them has been spent down to Detroit, where I went to cover state high school football championship games, played Friday morning.
For the fifth straight year, I will be doing that again. On Saturday, our team won its semifinal game 8-6. It wasn't a big win by any means, but a win's a win, and our team will make the 500-mile trip to the state title game again. Alas, so will I.
I have resigned myself to my fate for some time, realizing there was absolutely nothing I could do about it one way or the other. Would it happen again? I won't have to go down there five straight years, would I?
What a dumb question: Of course I would.
So on Sunday I worked on the article about the semifinal game. Then I start looking at maps, reminding myself where things are located relative to each other, what exits to take off the interstate, how to get from one place to the other and how to get back. I also have to make motel reservations.
Mind you, I don't mind going to Detroit when I can do it on my own terms. Like last summer, when all three of us visited my older son for a few days. But now the weather isn't so good. It's colder, and maybe there will be snow (though this week's forecast sounds pretty good).
My wife made the trip with me last year, but she will stay home this time--her training for her seasonal call center job starts Wednesday. But my younger son still wants to come along. So you don't have to worry about me not being well chaperoned throughout my trip. The chances of me slipping the leash and getting out somewhere for some fun are less than zero.
Let me say it plainly.
It. Is. Not. Fun.
I. Don't. Want. To go. Certainly not for the fifth straight year.
Especially this year. I wanted to spend part of Thanksgiving with my mom, since she is continuing to fade away. Every single bloody Thanksgiving since she went into the nursing home, I wanted to spend part of Thanksgiving with her. It hasn't happened, and it won't happen this year. God just doesn't want it to happen, I guess.
Here is a picture from Thanksgiving dinner at my mom's house back in 2001. Nothing elaborate, but we had venison and gravy, brown-and-serve rolls, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, apple pie (somewhat mashed) and (not pictured) pumpkin pie. We ate well ...
(Of course, such a Thanksgiving isn't possible any more, because my mom has been in the nursing home since late 2005. Sigh.)
Another thing about driving to Detroit for a title game is that I don't control the clock. We leave for the 11-hour trip south Wednesday morning and arrive in the Detroit area long after sundown. On Thursday, it's Thanksgiving: Everything in the States is closed. Everything in Canada is open, and I'm hoping we can cross over to Windsor (Ontario) for a little shopping and a nice dinner. That means I have to find my birth certificate.
We'll spend all of Thanksgiving with my older son. On Friday morning, my younger son and I get up really early so we can get on the freeway for Ford Field and the football game, which kicks off at 9 a.m. Central Time. This year, our team is a massive underdog, and I'm realistic about such things.
After the game, I get back on the interstate and can spend the next 11 hours thinking about what I'm going to say in my article as I drive home. We'll get home about midnight. I've got to bust my ass home right away so I have time to write about it Saturday and Sunday. The paper gets put together Monday morning, and all my work has to be done by then. I can only imagine how my neck and lower back will feel once it's all over. Maybe this year I finally call that massage therapist after it's all over.
But stop the presses: Now it appears I may have another option:
I have learned (from the coach) that I may be able to ride south with the team in their bus--and it's not a school bus, either. Right now, I am weighing the pluses and minuses.
Among the pluses: Since my younger son stays home, he can keep my wife company on Thanksgiving. I don't have to drive for some 20+ hours, with all the wear and tear on the car (and the driver). In a real rarity, I would go somewhere and not have to do 100% of the driving. I could get used to that. Don't have to book a motel room. Someone else is in charge and gets to make all the decisions.
Minuses: I'm not in charge and don't get to make the decisions. No chance of a side trip to Canada--so keep my loonies at home. Probably won't see my older son. Disappointing for my younger son--he can't come along for once. Waiting around during several football practices. And I don't get paid the mileage money--and though we only get 30 cents per mile, it's still works out to a nice profit on a 1,100-mile round trip if your car gets 35 mpg.
So now that I have been thinking about it, I am leaning quite a lot towards riding the bus. Even though I found the birth certificate. That's OK--my wife and I have been talking about applying for the new passport cards, so we can visit Canada next summer.
I have another adventure to tell you about, but I'll post that in a day or two (assuming our motel has wireless internet).
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11/13/2008 - One down, three to go
Hello, hello to one and all. This is my crazy-go-nuts week in terms of fall playoff coverage. The weather is going downhill, and I've got a lot of long drives this week. One down, three to go.
So I really didn't need to read this in the weather news this morning:
...SIGNIFICANT LAKE EFFECT SNOW ACCUMULATIONS POSSIBLE LATE FRIDAY NIGHT INTO SATURDAY EVENING FOR WEST AND NORTH CENTRAL UPPER MICHIGAN...
Now it just so happens that I will be driving up to Marquette on Friday afternoon and Saturday afternoon this week, to cover playoff football games. The games themselves will be played inside the Superior Dome, which you saw photos of recently, and it's all nice and dry and warm inside. But to get there, you have to drive two hours through whatever weather the U.P. is enjoying at the time. To get home again, you have to drive two hours back through whatever. If you don't know. Marquette is in the lake effect snow belt, on the south shore of Lake Superior--they can get vast quantities of snow. So it's shaping up as one of those weekends.
On Tuesday, I drove to the volleyball regional tournament. That is an 80-mile drive each way; it's a lot closer to Lake Michigan than to Lake Superior. Our team won (just barely, in five games) and advances to the regional championship match tonight. My wife is coming along to keep me company (and, oh yes, to pick up some low-cost kitty food in Iron Mountain), and we'll stop by to see my mom, too. It's fun to have someone along--nice to have company.
Last weekend, both the football teams played at home in their district championship games. One team played Friday night: It was about 40 degrees F and dry until a few raindrops fell in the final minutes. By that time they had won, so they were happy.
During the night, the rain continued, and it changed over to wet snow Saturday morning. The other team's game was at home, starting at 12:30 p.m. Remember the recent post about the game played in the rain and fog? This one had the same two teams at the same field, only it was played in daylight.
The field had taken a good soaking overnight, but the snowflakes were real pretty during the first half. and the field was in fairly good shape ...
Not that every pass was caught ...
Or that every tackle was made ...
So conditions were fairly good early in the game. But with all those football players chewing it up thoroughly over two hours of playoff football, the middle of the field got torn up and muddy and slick. Twas a muddy mess by the time it was over. The wet snow eased off during the second quarter, but some drier snow, driven by chilly winds out of the north, arrived during the second half.
As the game went on, the teams continued battling in the mire ...
Finally, the game was over. A touchdown in the first quarter was the only scoring in the game. As always, the teams shook hands when it was all over ...
I was talking to someone in the office today. Covering the game last Saturday was fun. Despite the rain and cold and mud. In fact, because of the rain and cold and mud. It was outdoors. It was real. It was genuine football.
This weekend, I may be driving two hours through snow (twice) to got photos of teams playing on a plastic carpet in warm conditions. It's just not the same. To me, the fun part of football season ended last Saturday ... regardless of what happens in the playoffs.
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11/4/2008 - Change? At last?
The BIG change won't be happening for another 2 1/2 months, but it should be in motion after today. After four years of waiting, it's Election Day. Will America get it right this time?
Most of the states had some form of early voting. In Michigan, well, we're a little behind the times. Everyone votes on Election Day in Michigan unless they get an absentee ballot. After discussing it with my wife, we decided to do our voting in the mid morning, just as I was driving her to the church and the quilters' group.
Lovely weather. It's partly cloudy outside, and temperatures are in the mid 60s. Not bad for early November!
So how long did voting take? How long were we in line? It took all of 15 seconds before I got the little slip (signature, address, date of birth) that I had to fill out to get my ballot; I also had to show my driver's license. Then I went into another room with the little voting booths and filled out the ballot. Same with my wife. Studied the ballot proposals: medical marijuana, yes; fewer restrictions on stem cell research, of course. Fed the ballot into the optical scanner. (Our ballots have the ovals that you fill in with a black felt-tip pen.) The whole procedure took five minutes, if that. Then I drove my wife to the quilters and went back to work.
It was, I should mention, my first chance to vote for Obama. Ever. Many of you had the chance to take part in primaries or caucuses early this year, but Michigan held an illegal Democratic primary in January (10 months ago). Knowing the DNC wouldn't accept the results, many candidates, including Obama, took their names off the ballot. It raised a ruckus in the run-up to the convention in August. Eventually, they figured out a solution.
We have a little tradition here on Election Day: Pancake Day. The local Kiwanis Club holds its Pancake Day on Election Day, so normally we vote, and then we get pancakes. Except this time we voted earlier than normal, so I took her to the quilters--they took her to the church where Pancake Day was taking place at 11:30 a.m., and I met her there. Pancakes. Sausages. Milk. Butter. It made for a filling mid-day repast.
We had finished the winter tourism issue (final step: proofreading) this morning. Tonight (at 5 p.m.) I will be covering a district volleyball tourney; I cover one match, then go home for supper and to watch the returns come in.
The volleyball districts continue on Thursday and Friday. Meanwhile, our football teams will both be going for their district titles on Friday night and Saturday afternoon. Both teams will be home. Both were home last Friday night for "sub-district" games. The weather was pretty decent: temperatures were in the 40s with no rain.
It wasn't so nice one week earlier, the final week of the regular season. The game I was at Friday night had some interesting weather. For most of the first half, it rained. Things got pretty soggy. Here's a picture of the action on the field during the rain ...
The rain eventually stopped during the second quarter, but during the second half fog started building. It went from soggy to foggy pretty quickly. Foggy conditions are hard for photography, especially action sports like football. Especially in a small, old stadium with poor lighting.
For a while, I tried using my flash like usual. But the light from the flash picks up all the water vapor in the air and you get something like this ...
Playing around with Photoshop can help some ... but it only goes so far ...
What was I to do? I finally tried turning off the flash and using available light. The trouble was, there wasn't much available light. This is what the field looked like from the sidelines with all that fog in the air ...
I wound up using one picture from during the rain and a shot of the reaction on the bench after our team earned a safety--I got the shot of the tackle in the end zone, too, but it was just too dark to use. You don't believe me?
The next day (Saturday afternoon), David and I went to the dome in Marquette for an evening game. It was just cloudy, so photography conditions were much better. Here's what the Superior Dome looks like from the outside ...
And here is what it is like inside ...
If our teams win this weekend, we'll probably by back in the Dome for the regional title games. As the playoffs move on, of course, the U.P.'s weather gets less football-friendly. We have been lucky so far, but good luck lasts only so long.
Everyone else is fine. The cats continue to adjust to each other. David came over last night--it was his birthday, so we had a favorite meal of his, and we watched some football. I bought him something he had wanted for a long time--a DVD recorder and VCR unit with a tuner. The DVD recorder doesn't have a hard drive of its own (like mine does; you just can't get them any more), but he wanted it mainly to copy some of his old videotapes, and the unit I bought will handle that with no problem (according to the box).
I know I haven't been around here much lately. What can I say? The World Seri0us captured my attention. The election, of course--I've been watching CNN and C-SPAN a lot. And I've been pretty busy with night assignments. It should start easing off fairly soon.
I've missed writing. I like to write at night, and there just hasn't been the time lately--because my wife likes it when we sit together and watch something. Or else when I'm upstairs writing, Charlie comes around. She hops up on the computer desk, walks around behind the flast-screen monitor, comes out the other side and climbs down into my lap. That's just the way she does it.
Then she's happy. Purr, purr. And I'm done with writing for a while.
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10/23/2008 - Last chance to mow
Our area had a lovely day today. It started cloudy and cool, but then it cleared off and got into the low 50s. I celebrated it after work today by doing something I hadn't done for a while: I mowed the lawn.
Final rite of our rapidly disappearing summer. A cold front is supposed to blow through on Sunday. We may see snowflakes before Monday.
The grass had gotten long because I hadn't mown it for a while. Part of it is basic laziness, I suppose, but the long delay is partly due to the ankle I twisted in early September. We have a push mower, so when you mow the lawn you get some good exercise. I didn't want to push the ankle until it was feeling nearly back to normal. It is now. If I twist it the wrong way, it hurts a little. Otherwise, it's back to normal.
I had to run out for a picture this evening, and when I walked out to the car, I said to myself that the lawn is looking fairly nice. Better than it was, certainly.
The picture, by the way, was at a youth hockey practice. Yes, winter's on the way.
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Geez, I've fallen behind on everyone's blogs lately. I've got an excuse. Maybe not a good one, but it's better than nothing.
At work, we have been working hard on our winter tourism issue. The official deadline is this weekend, and I fell behind on things last week. Suddenly it came to me--Eureka!--that nobody else is going to do the work for me. So I had to hustle my bustle. Like they say about the butcher who sat down in the meat grinder, "I'm getting a little behind in my work."
So no quiet time at the office this week. Instead, manic work to get a bunch of features written or updated. Meanwhile, I had a pair of friends I wanted to write to, and that took up my evenings at home. And I was already tired, from all the work I had done.
Also, Wednesday was my wife's birthday, and we wanted to visit my mom that evening. So we did. I got her a couple cards. Some of you may remember some of the infamous cards I get for my wife. The stock of clever ones seemed to be down this year. Still, I came up with this one.
Here is the front ...
And this is inside ...
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On a recent trip to see my mom, my wife and I decided to get a scratch mat for Max. We put it out, and Max seemed to take to it ...
So did the other two cats. Maggie decided to give it a try. She thought it was good to sit on ...
And Charlie decided to give it a try. First, she worked it up with a paw to make a little tunnel out of it ...
Then the little feathery toy on it got her attention, and Charlie had a great time playing with it ...
Oh, she was having a great time with it ...
The cats are getting along a lot better. Still an occasional hiss or growl, but it's gotten a lot better. Last time I wrote, I wasn't sure it was going to work out. Now it's better.
Max's personality is coming out more. He likes to get petted but doesn't like to be picked up that often. But he comes around, rubbing against my legs or my hand when I put it down. He likes to get his head petted and scratched. Purr, purr.
Meanwhile, nearly every morning now, Charlie comes to visit me about 5 a.m., when I'm just waking up. I feel her walking up by my side. I try to lie on my back, with my arm to my side, so Charlie will lie down by my side, with my arm on the other side, so she can put her forepaws on my upper arm. Purr, purr. Sometimes she gets her middle rubbed. Other times, I drift back to sleep.
Did I ever tell you that Charlie likes crackers? Every cat is strange in some way, and Charlie seems to have a weakness for ordinary soda crackers. When I came out to the living room this evening with a pair crackers, Charlie hopped up by me. Meow? Meow? Urrrow? She starts sniffing the crackers and tries to lick them, so I finally break off a tiny corner and offer it to her. She sniffs and then eats it. You could hear a soft crunch, crunch. She had two pieces and was satisfied.
Ironically, my wife said she was sitting with Charlie yesterday. She had a couple crackers for herself ... and Charlie paid them no attention.
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10/20/2008 - Tagged like me
OK, I got tagged, by IndigoMoonArts. My mission today is to relate seven strange or little-known facts about myself.
Now I know myself. And you think you know me from what I have written here. The fact is, though, that I don't write about parts of my life.
Reasons? They are boring. They are uninteresting. Yes, even more uninteresting than the stuff I normally write about. Some hurt a little too much to write about. They are too personal. With all the stuff I've written about, too personal?
Well, we'll see. I thought of a few things that may raise an eyebrow or two. And so ...
1. I don't drink coffee. Or beer. Don't care for the taste of either. So I don't go to coffee houses or bars. Not that I'm an abstainer. Wine is OK, and so is liquor. But I go real easy on that stuff. How easy? Last beer I had was at the "pre-draft party" around April 1. I had a little mead (honey wine) and other kinds of wine during the neopagan camp last summer. A little. Not much.
2. I've been cutting back on some kinds of food. Soda--I've cut way back on that. Milk--I drink just 1% milk now. White bread: cut that out entirely--I get rye bread with little caraway seeds or else natural grain bread. That's what we have for breakfast. In general, I avoid sweet stuff. A little candy is OK, but I don't do that often.
2. I may be involved in a lawsuit. As a plaintiff. It involves the estate of my aunt who died in January 2007. The personal representative, who is one of 11 nieces and nephews, may have taken a lot of money from the estate. We (my cousins and I) strongly suspect he has. He has been removed, and a new personal rep is being appointed. Stay tuned.
3. I have never been out of the U.S. Midwest in my life. Never have seen a mountain. Never have seen an ocean, unless you think Lake Superior counts. Furthest west: Minneapolis-St. Paul. Furthest east: Harriston, Ontario. Furthest south: the Chicago area. Furthest north: the tip of the Keweenaw Peninsula in the U.P. It's not that I don't want to travel. But there just never has been enough time or money. I have been to Canada a few times; the Sault Ste. Marie area, Windsor with my son and that special trip to visit S in December 2005.
4. Never have flown in an airplane, either. Well, I'll take that back. About 20 years ago, I went up in a private plane--we flew around the county, with me taking pictures of some of the sights: the woods, the towns, the lakes. That was my only time. Commercial flights, no.
4. I met my wife on a blind date. Just after the first moon landing, in 1969. It was arranged by a high school classmate of mine with big boobs who was working with her, about a year after we graduated. We went to some park where we tried out a batting cage (I fouled off the first pitch and fanned on all the others), drove go-karts, walked along Milwaukee's Bradford Beach and then did a lot of kissing in the back seat as they drove us home. We went out the next Saturday by ourselves. And the next. And the next. And the next. And the next. And the next. Etc. Meanwhile, the other girl (my ex-classmate with the big boobs) broke up with her BF.
5. I love trains. I was born too late for the era of train travel, but at least I can see what it was like on many of the classic movies. I also have CDs and DVDs that featuring steam locomotives. Sometimes when I can't sleep, I put on a CD of steam locomotives roaring around. I listen, and before long I'm asleep. The stuff I put my wife through!
6. I love foreign films. Particular Akira Kurosawa's samurai films, samurai films in general and the Expressionist films (especially directed by Fritz Lang) from the post-World War I era in Germany. That's a passion that (like many of mine) I have to enjoy by myself or not at all. My dream poly lover would be someone who also loves to watch foreign films. And play around.
6. My fantasy football team, the Howlin' Wolfs (named for the classic blues singer), is undefeated and in first place seven weeks into the season. Three of the wins have been by less than two points, but a win's a win.
6. I'm a fan of cricket. Really. I understand how the game is played; in fact, I have a few cricket videos and DVDs. Want me to explain the LBW law? Or what "Bodyline" was all about? What strange thing happened in Sir Donald Bradman's final innings? Just ask me. (I got pissed during the baseball strike of 1994 and decided to learn what cricket was all about.)
7. I'm a president. For real. We have a cooperative cable TV/broadband internet corporation in town, and I have been a director for many years, as board president for the last 10 years or so. That means I get to sign the checks and preside at board meetings. We keep our rates as low as we can. Just finished a project to enhance our bandwidth and add more fiber nodes.
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Not much else to report on. The cats are getting along better, as some of you predicted. Updates later--I want to write a friend tonight; this will be a week with very little spare time, so better take care of it now.
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10/16/2008 - Are you sitting comfortably?
Prepare yourself for a shock.
Are you sitting down? (Of course you are; you're at the computer, aren't you?)
The news is: I haven't been feeling particularly creative lately.
It's this, that and the other thing. Maybe my brain is seizing up. Screeech! Summer now seems to have fled the scene for good, and I'm working on articles for our annual winter issue. I can't begin to tell you how happy that makes me. Wonderful. Six months of winter, on deck.
Well, like most stuff in life, it is what you make of it. Right at the moment, I'm a bit down at the prospect of winter coming. But after winter there's spring, and then summer. Spring is only six or seven months away, depending on whether it's a late spring or not.
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There is big news at our house. We have added another cat. May I introduce you to Max (his shelter name) ...
Max--that name may be changed--was acquired from the local animal shelter. He is a male cat who was already neutered. He is about 3 1/2 years old, bright orange, as you can see, and comparatively thin. He is friendly and likes to be petted. Purr, purr, purr.
My naive hope was that Charlie was looking for a friend, someone she can play with, since Maggie still hisses at Charlie when she goes by. Such has not been the case. We brought Max home yesterday, in the late afternoon. Once Charlie realized that the pet taxi came home with an occupant, she started hissing. And growling. Charlie knows cat words that I have never heard before. One sounds like "Oyyyyy, yoy-yoy-yoy-yoy-yoyyyyy!" (Normally, Charlie "talks" a lot as she goes around the house; some cats do, and others don't.)
One time yesterday, she put her ears down (first time I ever saw her do that) and hissed and then chased Max upstairs. They both went under our bed. I followed them and heard them hissing at each other. That's all that happened. For the most part, they have stayed apart today. But my wife said they started having a conversation just before noon. She knew what to do: She turned on the vacuum cleaner. That ended the discussion immediately: One cat went one way, and the other went another.
Another issue must be resolved: Max has not been declawed. We are hoping we won't have to do this. This evening, we tried to trim her claws with a fingernail clipper--something we hadn't done since we had Princess (that cat that preceded Frisky, who is the cat that preceded Charlie). Max must have been declawed before, but he didn't want to cooperate with us, so we let him go. He is not scratching furniture; just the carpets, and most of our carpets at home aren't much to speak of. He does that when he's happy, sort of kneading his paws on the floor. When we had lunch together today, Max went around and around the table, brushing against our legs and getting petted.
I want to tell you a little about Max's history, too. Charlie came to the shelter as a kitten. Max arrived there around New Year's--he had been at the shelter for 10 months until this week. The story is that he was found as a stray, and they discovered he had an abcess in his mouth, which was causing him pain. The vet took care of that. According to the shelter's bio, "Max wants a nice indoors home. He doesn't want to be outside any more." At one point, they told us, he got depressed and stopped eating. He is still thin. Much lighter than Charlie, who had gotten rather rotund in her time with us.
I just hope that he and Charlie will be able to get along better. I feel pretty bad about the way things have turned out. If I had known Charlie would be this way about it ...
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Tonight, I'm upstairs, writing, with the Red Wings game on the little TV to my left. I'm up here by myself. If this were a perfect world, I would have at least a cat here to keep me company. But this is not a perfect world, is it?
Usually stuff like that doesn't bother me that much. Tonight it is.
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10/8/2008 - Indian summer
Checking in ...
The last week or so went by in a bit of a daze. Mega amounts of baseball, at least compared to the rest of the season, when there frankly wasn't a lot on TV. Not the teams I was interested in, anyway.
But this year the Milwaukee Brewers made it into the playoffs for the first time in 26 years, so I was honor-bound to watch as much of them as I could (notwithstanding the fact that I'm not as much into baseball as I used to be. Hockey has taken over ... but the Brewers in the playoffs change all that temporarily).
How long has it been since the Brewers were in the baseball post-season? So long ago that I missed most of that World Series for two reasons. (1) My wife and I were taking childbirth classes at a local hospital, because she was pregnant with David. (2) We didn't have a VCR yet. It was the 1982 World Series against the St. Louis Cardinals. This was back in the days of Betamax vs. VHS. You don't know what a Betamax is?
Anyway, this year, the Brewers were eliminated by Philadelphia in four games, with the final game on Sunday. I didn't expect them to win; they faced very long odds. I only wanted one thing: for them to last longer than the media darling Chicago Cubs. And they did--the Cubs were defeated by the L.A. Dodgers in three straight, the night before. So I was happy about that.
I'll probably watch more of the baseball playoffs. But hockey season starts on Thursday night, and that's my No. 1 now. So let's just say I will be greatly distracted.
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Meanwhile, I'm wondering about how long the high school football season will go. Long-time readers know I have gone to the state championship game for the last four games--and our team won the Michigan state title last year. This year, I thought I wouldn't have to do that. Too many star players had graduated.
But guess what? It's six games into the season, and the team really hasn't been challenged so far. Last Friday, as temperatures dipped into the upper 20s, they played their biggest rival, in a town 30 miles away--and won 46-6. It wasn't close.
It's getting colder now, and the players' breath was steaming late in the game ...
Earlier, I expected them to make the playoffs and last a few games. Now I have to adjust that projection. They are looking mighty strong, and my post-season may last longer than I first expected. Will I really have to make that 500+-mile drive down to visit my son over Thanksgiving and then the state title game on Friday morning?
Three weeks are left in the regular season and then the playoffs start. I won't worry about it. It's completely out of my hands. It's just that I would like to spend Thanksgiving at home for once. After all, it's been five years since I last could.
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I have had a writing project in mind, which would have appeared here, this week. But I think I'm going to put it on hold until next year. It had to do with that trip to the pagan equinox ritual recently. During the trip, I visited a small city that was the site of a major disaster, the most deadly fire in U.S. history. And I bet you have never heard about it.
But time is tight this week--we are working on one of our many special editions each year, and I need to get some stories written. Also, I don't have all the photos I want to help tell the story. I got a few during my visit, but just some of them. This story, I think, has to wait for another day. Or another year. Long enough for me to write it up right.
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I covered a cross-country meet on Monday. It rained for most of the day, and while the rain had stopped an hour before the race, it was still cool and damp and breezy. The seasons are definitely a-changing up here.
But then a front went through, with rain, and temperatures are now forecast to be well above normal for the rest of the week. Highs in the upper 60s. Beautiful mild autumn days. Indian summer.
There's a famous old cartoon by John T. McCutcheon, "Injun Summer," that appeared in the Chicago Tribune over a hundred years ago. About an old codger spinning tall tales to a boy while they are raking leaves in the fall. I always think about that this time of year.
Have you ever seen it? Click the link and you will.
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One other thing to mention: Last Saturday, we went to the local animal shelter, to look at the cats. We saw several that we liked. We have been talking about them since. Maybe we will make a return visit fairly soon.
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10/1/2008 - Turning into October
We flipped the calendar page today. We also seem to have flipped the weather page. Yesterday, it was fairly nice. Today, it was cool and windy. Word is that the weather will get cooler as the week goes on. They are predicting lows in the upper 20s Friday night. (Note to self: Be sure to take the fingerless gloves to the football game that night.)
I bowed to the inevitable at about 10:30 this morning: I reached for my sweater to pulled it on over my short-sleeved shirt. It was the first time I had done that since last spring. Outside, it was 45 at about noon with no sign it will be getting warmer for a while.
So fall is here. The color change is now well along, but it's been cloudy most of the time so conditions for fall color photos have been very limited.
Time to report on my adventures over the weekend. I went to a fall solstice ritual conducted by a neopagan group near Menominee, Mich. I spent the night there; I left home (by myself) at about 2 p.m. Saturday and arrived back home at about noon Sunday. Things went pretty well.
I was there at the invitation of a couple I had met at the gathering held every summer, around the Fourth of July, in southwestern Wisconsin. They also travel long distances to get there. I drove first to their home. They helped carry my stuff downstairs to their "pagan guest room," which is a spare room equipped with a couch, several bookcases with pagan-related books in them, candles on top of them and posters on the wall. The room also featured lots of clutter. They had set up an air mattress on the floor, and I put my sleeping bag and pillow on it. I was all set.
We had a light dinner there, and I got to meet the two resident cats. Another older woman arrived; she went to the event with us. It took place in Wisconsin, about 10 miles to the south, near a home and a large garage. It was just after sunset when we arrived. Outside, next to the garage, they had a large cauldron set up and were starting a fire. The cauldron had moons and stars cut out on the sides, which I thought was very cool (for a burning cauldron) ...
Temperatures were about 55 to 60. Not overly cool. Once everyone had assembled (about a dozen people), the ritual took place in the garage. It was centered on a table decorated with several candles and some normal fall/harvesttime decorations ...
My hosts led the ceremony, which lasted maybe 20 minutes. I had a minor part, speaking to the element Air. (There are four elements, Air, Water, Fire and Earth--their spirits are invited to take part in the ritual.)
Once the ceremony ended, it was time for Act Two: Everyone moved over to a nearby table, where a variety of goodies were out for a pot luck. They had mead (honey wine), several other kinds of wine and a crockpot full of hot cider. That's what I went for; hot cider is one of my favorites. There were cornbread muffins, along with your typical Doritos and blue corn chips and dip and a few other things.
Part three of the evening consisted of drumming. Maybe about half the people had come mainly for the drumming, and now was the time they were waiting for. Originally the drumming was to have been outside, around the cauldron, but some light rain passed through for about a minute or so, and the drummers were worried about their drumheads. So the drumming moved inside the largish garage. I played a small drum--I'm just a beginner, you know, but I know rhythm and syncopation, so I was able to figure out the rhythms part of the time.
I took this shot by just the light of the candles ...
But if you want to see the drums and the drummers ...
It lasted till about 10:15 p.m., when the group started saying good-bye. We drove back to Menominee, dropped off the older woman at her place and then went back to the house. Before long, I was in the pagan guest room, stretched out on my sleeping bag. It took a while to fall asleep, but I finally did. I headed for home at about 8:30 a.m. Sunday.
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Outside of that, life has been fairly ordinary lately. The other notable thing to happen was our visit to my mom last Thursday. My wife came along. For the first time since spring, my mom expressed an interest in going for a ride. So we did. Between then and now, however, she has gotten a different wheelchair, and this one won't fold up and go into the trunk, like her old one could. Bottom line is that she couldn't get out until we were back at the nursing home.
Our first stop was the cemetery where my dad and brother are buried. I pulled up so she could look out her window at the gravestone (about 15 feet away). She looked at it and before long she was crying. Crying for her son (my only brother), who took his life 23 years ago.
The last time we were there, the stone was dirty with moss, lichens and other dirt. We came back there around Memorial Day (end of May) with our cleaning supplies. It looks nice now.
The rest of the trip was better and predictable. We visited the rural area where she was raised (which looks nothing like it used to, even when I was a kid) and the farm where my dad lived (which still looks much like it did way back when). They are just a mile or two from each other.
We wrapped up the drive by getting her a chicken sandwich at Subway on our way back to the nursing home. It was a six-incher. She ate about a third of it, and my wife and I polished off the rest of it. After that she was tired, so we headed for home.
Lucky that we did it when we did. It was a nice day--temperatures in the mid 70s. Today, it's not even 50. It's October, after all.
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9/23/2008 - The mystery of the missing notebook
OK, I'm back after a very busy weekend, one filled with frustration and drama and fear. Yes, fear. Sorta.
It all started at the football game last Friday night. An ordinary game, and not a very exciting one, either. Our team had a 14-0 lead within two minutes of the kickoff, a 28-0 lead one play into the second quarter and was ahead 42-7 at halftime. Final score: 49-14. No, not so thrilling.
After the game, I got a picture of the team in its post-game huddle, then got a picture of a volunteer coach on the team, for a feature I'm planning. I was hurrying around after the final gun to grab my camera bag and stuff, and I know I dropped my reporter's notebook and program once or twice. Usually I stick them in the camera bag, but I was wrapped up in talking to people. That's the way it is after a game.
I went home, watched TV for a while, helped my wife to bed, caught up with the news online and then hit the hay myself. Saturday morning, I had to be at the office early to talk to the coach (who likes to get interviews out of the way before 9 a.m.--he gets up early).
I get to the office, open the camera bag and reach for my little yellow notebook. It's not there. The program is there, my photo notebook is there, and the camera is there. The narrow yellow notebook isn't. Not there. I go out and look in my car. No dice. Inside the house, where I put the bag overnight. Ix-nay.
This notebook is where I write play-by-play notes of the game. Who did what and when and to whom. I stand on the sidelines during a game, scribbling notes between plays. When it's time for another play, I stick the notebook under my arm and put the pen in my mouth so both my hands are free to operate the camera. After the play, I put the camera down and start writing. That's how I do it.
And even though it was a lopsided, not-that-interesting game, they were still my notes on what happened, from which I compose my story. Without it ... I didn't want to think about it. So I got in my car and drove to the football field. Walked down the hill to the field and looked around. Not there. I climbed the hill again, got back in the car and drove to the parking lot at the school. Nothing to see.
Crap! All I was thinking was that I'd have to base the story on the bare-bones account in the local daily paper and the coach's faulty memory. So I was depressed about that. I covered a volleyball match that afternoon, and all I could think about was that missing football notebook. Crap! I was glum that night.
But my wife said that someone had called, asking if I was missing a notebook. It was one of the school personnel; a retired teacher and husband to the tennis coach. She said he would put it in the office mailbox.
It wasn't there in the morning, when I got there, but it was at mid-morning. I didn't quite kiss it, but maybe I should have. Anyway, now I could write my uninteresting story about an uninteresting game, with all the necessary uninteresting details intact.
It got me to thinking. I don't take a lot of things too seriously, myself especially, but I do take my work damn seriously. I care very much about writing it right and getting facts straight, knowing what to say and how to say it. I don't like mistakes, my own especially. I like to give the facts, and let the reader make up their own mind.
I covered a volleyball match last night. Then, when I got home, my wife and I sat together and watched the original "Hellboy" movie. That was a lot of fun; we both enjoyed it. I know that the second Hellboy movie came out last summer, and I really wanted to see it, but it just didn't work out, and the film slipped out of town before I knew it. Heard a lot of good things about it, though, so I'm waiting for the DVD to come out. Not yet.
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Ankle update: It is almost back to normal. Late last week, I started wearing athletic shoes again, and that worked OK. I wore them at the game last Friday and climbed up and down the hill OK. Including Saturday's unexpected visit.
Monday, I tried my normal work shoes, but they were still digging in a little too much where the ankle is tender, so back to the athletic shoes. I had to run a few errands this noon, and as I was walking from the car to the drug store to city hall, I noticed that I was walking at my normal brisk pace.
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It's a beautiful day here today. Sunny, and the temperature is in the mid 70s. The annual color change has started, but it's moving very slowly. Partly, that is because we haven't had a really hard frost yet.
The office golf fanatics are away today, getting in a final round, so there's just me and another woman in the office. Very quiet day. A good day for writing.
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9/16/2008 - A weekend with Starlius
I haven't written an update for a while. There are reasons.
First, the big news is that my foot and ankle are still attached to my body. Yes, it is still hurting, though not as much. No, I haven't been putting ice on it. I know I should, but I've been a bit of a baby about that. We have one of those cold wraps in the fridge, and I've used it a few times on the ankle and the top of the foot. The thing of it is--it's cold! Really! So I can stand it for a while, and then I put it away.
Rest? Ha! My ankle gets rest when I can rest. And I can't rest. Not ever. Well, I did for a while on Saturday. I never visited my mom on Saturday--that's one thing I'm doing today. So on Saturday, I just sat around home most of the day. On Sunday, more of the same. I had to run around and do some errands, but most of the time I was off my feet. I even took a nap Saturday afternoon!
I have started wearing a sandal on that (left) foot. I can get the foot in a shoe, but the side of the shoe rubs too much on the bruised part of my ankle and foot, so I finally got the bright idea of wearing a sandal on that foot. It's working for now. I covered the football game last Friday--another 2+ hours on my feet, walking up and down the sidelines--and it survived pretty well.
The inflammation and bruising is still there, at my ankle and the top of my foot, and I should have used that cold wrap last night. But I didn't. And I also haven't been taking Tylenols as often as maybe I should. I've just been taking them when it's really bothering me. A macho thing, you know.
After visiting my mom today, I have to cover a volleyball match. When I get back, I'll put the cold wrap on it again for a while. I promise.
The distractions came in a box from Amazon that arrived on Friday. It included a couple books on open relationships, a book about the 1908 major league baseball season (one of the closest ever) and -- ta-daah! -- Spore. Yes, I "invested" in the new "god game" Spore, so after my game Friday night and on and off over the weekend I worked on a purple and green quadruped that has gone through some evolutions as I make my way through the game. I am in the "creature" phase now. Maybe about 2/3rds of the way through that. But there are other phases to come.
He's cute ... in an ugly sort of a way. I named him "Starlius." You can see him at spore.com by doing a search on Starlius. He's among nearly 20 million critters created in the week or so since the game came out. I described him as "a weird-looking blue thing," and that is still accurate. But he's cute ... if your idea of cute includes a narwhal-like horn, a gator-like snout, eyestalks and odd colors. They have a thing where you can take a picture of him. Maybe Starlius can be my new avatar!
I can blame Starlius for distracting me from the books that I really wanted to study. In fact, I have been reading one, but late at night, just before bed, as my brain is shutting down. Then my wife puts her book away and Charlie hops up and wants to start chasing toes. My toes. Time to turn off the light.
The other thing that happened over the weekend is that we had a rainstorm move through Saturday evening. Not from the remnants of Hurricane Ike that passed through other parts of the Midwest with vat quantities of rain, but it was raining hard for a while. Anyway, I was upstairs, busy with Starlius, when I heard some dripping. Yep. The spare bedroom.
We had our roof replaced about 10 years ago, but there seems to be a bad shingle there, and it drips into the attic and from there into the spare bedroom when it's raining heavily. Bad foot/ankle and all, I (and my wife) climbed upstairs to set out buckets to manage things for the time being.
Just too much excitement and exertion for my ankle, which was aching afterwards. Get out the cold wrap.
The highlight of today's visit to my mom is getting her rings, which she wanted resized. Her fingers are so thin now that the rings can just slip right off, so I took them to ajeweler to make them smaller. My wife said the jeweler called Monday--they're ready. I also have to stop at the store to get some cat food (for the cats), some Tums (for her) and some Vitamin B and D (also for her).
I'm also going to look for a blouse I saw at the store last week. It's a dark, long-sleeved blouse with sort of semi-transparent stripes on it. For my wife. As a gift. Maybe she'll wear it for me. Maybe not. I'll try. Can't blame a guy for trying.
From there, off to a volleyball match at North Dickinson and then home. My wife is with the quilters today; we won't be able to eat together, but I should be home the rest of the week, and the football game on Friday is right here in town.
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8/27/2008 - Pulling it all at the fair
Two weeks ago, the county took place in our town, and I covered some of the events held in front of the grandstand.
Look, it's a small, rural fair. Low budget. Low creativity. Low expectations. They have a midway, some rides, 4-H exhibits and the 4-H livestock auction. Food booths. Elephant ears. They had a horse pull this year, but I opted to cover the 4-H kids' horse show first. Later, I drove past and there were no horses in the arena.
Pulling is an important part of the show. The fair has the horse pull, a tractor pull and a truck pull. I like the horses the best, but I had to miss them this year.
The tractor pull involves tractors pulling a weighted sled--there's a moving concrete box on it, and as the box moves, the sled gets harder and harder to pull.
The arena's dirt floor was very dry (with hardly any rain for the last few weeks, that was no surprise), leading to very dusty conditions ...
Eventually I wised up and went on the other side. However, with the tractors pulling into the sun, there was just so much I could do ...
They finally had a fire truck come out and wet down the track where the sled was being pulled ...
Most of the tractors in the competition were really old. Most date from the late 1940s or early 50s. It was ironic because the tractor pulling the weight sled back to the start was nice and new ...
It was a lot like the truck pull, which took place Friday night. Same basic plan, with pickup trucks instead of tractors. The procedure was the same.
First, the truck pulls the weight sled ...
Lovely truck, right?
When the pull is done, some heavy equipment pulls the weight sled back to the start ...
Note the damage made to the track by the truck (or tractor) as it digs into the dirt track, trying to move the sled every last fraction of an inch that it can ...
So to fix up the track, a bulldozer comes out to smooth things down ...
Then the next truck (or tractor) comes out, and here we go again. And again. And again. It amounts to about 15 seconds of watching a truck pull the weight sled, followed by 2 or 3 minutes of pulling the sled back, the dozer coming out and smoothing the track, the next truck getting all set up, etc. It does get rather tedious.
I liked one of the local trucks that was entered. It was a nice-looking Ford that made a good pull ...
But on its next pull, something went very wrong. There was a grinding sound, the truck stopped dead, and something was glowing underneath it. In seconds, people were swarming around ...
The engine had blown. I heard later that the guy had put about $10,000 into the engine, which was tested with a dynamometer and rated at 1,100 horsepower. Either the clutch or flywheel wasn't up to the challenge, and the $10,000 engine blew.
And that wasn't the worst for him. The worst came a few minutes later: His well-loved Ford truck was pulled off the track ... by a Chevy ...
A fate worse than death.
The truck pull also featured some trucks from the Wisconsin-Upper Michigan Pullers Association: known as the WUMPAs or "whump-ass." These trucks are much more expensive than even the blue truck, beautifully painted, with highly tuned engines running on nitro fuel, like dragsters. And they were loud. VERY loud. Earth-shakingly loud. Hear-it-across-the-city loud. If sound could create light, this would be a very bright photo ...
The truck show fills about a third to half of the grandstand. But the show on Saturday night fills all the seats, and then some. It's the demolition derby. There were about 60 cars this year, and a few had beautiful paint jobs ...
While others were grizzled, recycled demo derby warriors ...
And even the cars that came in looking nice came out looking not so nice. At one time, this was an Imperial. I guess it still is, not that you could identify it ...
The demo derby is easily the most popular event of the fair. All the grandstand seats are packed, people are lined up around the fences, and the beer concession is very busy. Big surprise, right?
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8/25/2008 - The three bears plus one
Time marches on ... into fall! The calendar page still reads August, but we got a preview of coming attractions this morning.
Our area had a frost advisory early Monday morning, though we didn't quite get there. I looked outside early this morning, and the ground was not frosted. We only got down to 34 (but the official temperature, near the river, reached 29).
My life continues to be busy, and what with work projects, other personal projects and the last days of the Olympics, my blog-writing has been on hold. Maybe motivation is a problem, too. I wanted to ... and yet I didn't want to. You know how that goes? I still have other things on my mind.
I have two photo entries coming up. One is from the county fair, held here about a week ago or so. That one is nearly done and could be posted pretty soon. The other is from that powwow we attended in early August. When things calm down, I'll work on the photos from that.
The most important thing this week is that we have a short week at work--we put the paper together on Friday instead of Monday, due to the Labor Day holiday. That coincides with the first football games of the new high school season, kicking off Friday night. So what do we do about that?
Here's what we do: I cover one of the games in person Friday night, then come in Saturday morning, write the report on that game and process some pictures. I also get a phone report on the other game and write a report on that. Then I put my page together; someone else uploads it to the printing plant later. I hope to get it all done by halfway through Saturday afternoon. I should; all my other work ought to be done by then.
Once my pages are all finished, my wife and I are hitting the road--to visit my in-laws in NW Wisconsin over the long weekend. My father-in-law died last December (our most recent visit). Since then the rest of the family has been dividing up things at the house. They put several big boxes of things aside for us--we are supposed to take them home with us in our little car. (FYI, there are four girls and four boys, and my wife is the eldest.)
Of course, there are only so many big boxes you can cram into a little car. We will get there Saturday night and drive home either on Monday or Tuesday. So it's either two or three nights away from home. It must be getting old for the kitties.
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Now here's something that happened to me last week. I was in the office, working on this and that, when we got a phone call. It was someone I knew, and he was excited. "I've got a bear in a tree near my place; come out with your camera if you want a great shot." He told me how to get there. I called my wife and got her off whatever she was doing so she could see the fun, too.
Here's what the fun was like. See that tree on the left side of the road? Look about three-quarters of the way up ...
That's what you could see without binoculars. But I have a telephoto lens; it's useful for situations like this. Through the lens, here's what we saw ...
In all, we have four bears here: the mama bear and three cubs--one below, one above and the third near mom's belly. They were moving around while I was there (about 10 people had gathered to look--it was about 11:30 a.m.) The guy said he discovered the bear while mowing some grass--he saw some fragments of bark at the base of the tree and looked up.
We were there about a half hour, then headed back to town. The guy later told me that the bear and cubs came down about 2 p.m. Just in time to scare the mail carrier while she was making her daily deliveries.
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8/19/2008 - Back to the surface
I am resurfacing just for a few minutes to say hi and good-bye. A short good-bye.
It's just a few minutes because I have lots of writing on my plate. Last week, I had to work on several articles for a special edition we are working on; I had to get interviews and then write them up. I felt intimidated by all that. Plus, it was the first week of practice for the fall sports (football and volleyball), and I had to do articles on them. Plus, it was the week of the County Fair, and I had many assignments there. And the Olympics had my attention, too.
This week, where do I stand? All the interviews for the special edition have been done, and all but one of the articles, too. I feel much better about that! I did the sports previews last week. This week, I have a football scrimmage to cover on Friday and a v'ball tournament Saturday--so that's all at the end of the week. A busy weekend, but what's new?
Meanwhile, the fair is over. We pushed through many pictures on Monday, and I have one more article to write this week. It's the people's choice event, the one that always jam-packs the grandstand, the biggest money-maker of all: the demolition derby. I give it a tongue-in-cheek article in sports with a few photos. I have fun with it while (most importantly) not putting it down. Plus I was able to find a feature this year, too.
Then I've got some personal writing, too. I have to write S. I have to write a new female friend (don't get excited; she lives in Alaska). I want to write a funny blog entry about something that happened during the truck pull at the fair (the night before the demo).
The Olympics continues. I watched a lot of the swimming and Michael Phelps' achievements. I've been seeing this and that. We get three channels that cover the Olympics: NBC, USA Network and CBC, from Canada. Frequently, especially with the major events, both NBC and CBC carry the same event; CBC is Canada first, of course, but they closely watch the U.S. entries.
Sometimes it's fascinating, sometimes not. One sport I like to watch is show-jumping. Riders on horses, jumping over obstacles. CBC has a lot of that during the summer from Spruce Meadows (near Calgary), and my wife and I like watching the horses do their stuff. So yesterday, we found out when CBC was carrying the show jumping team finals and saw the U.S. and Canada in a jump-off to decide first place (which the U.S. won).
The other thing, you may have noticed, is that I'm back to checking your blog entries. I had a mental block about that for a while--just procrastinated on that, maybe worried about all the special edition articles. Now I'm back into that, leaving comments when I can contribute a thought or a joke or a pun (lame though it may be).
OK, back to my Ducks Unlimited article. See you guys around.
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8/12/2008 - Bloggy blahs
(First posted at Vox earlier today.)
I can't explain this. I'm having problems right now. Not bad problems. Just ... problems.
Problems with the blog, if you really must know. I think I have enough stuff to write or ponder about. But right now I'm having mental blocks about reading. What happened is that I fell behind on my blog reading when we went out for our trip to the lake last week. It was only two days or so. But since then, I don't know ... I've done a little blog reading. But not a lot.
Can't explain why. The Olympics, OK, maybe that's a factor. But you know how much I love the Stanley Cup playoffs, and I did try to keep up during that time despite watching everything on ice I could find. And I did keep up for the most part. So maybe the Olympics has nothing to do with it. But I feel pressed for time.
Maybe I've got a touch of the blues, with summer nearly over and the fall onslaught of sports work nearly here. It doesn't usually bother me, and you know I like covering football. So ... maybe it's not that either. The John Edwards thing. I had thoughts on that, at least as a jumping off point. Stuff at work.
Even my visit to my mom last week, on our way home from our trip. She wanted me to stay longer--but I was getting very tired and just wanted to go home. We'll go down and visit her tomorrow, and this time we'll put aside more time. That's been bothering me, too.
Just don't feel motivated right now. Just don't feel a lot of things. If I knew where the switch sits, I'd flick it. I know it happens, and I know I'll snap out of it before long. Then I'll be happier. Not yet, though.
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8/2/2008 - Off to more adventures
Not much time to write this morning, so I'd better get at it.
Despite the local tragedy that took place the day before, we visited the Iron Mountain area Friday afternoon and had a good time. I had ordered something for my mom--the manual from the TV in her room (seems she has lost it)--and it arrived in the mail earlier in the day, and I put it near the camera bag so I would be sure to grab it on my way out. But I also wanted to grab jackets because temperatures were supposed to fall into the 50s after sunset. Apparently my pea-size brain couldn't process "Remember TV manual booket" and "Remember jackets" at the same time.
We visited my mom, and I went out to Subway for dinner for all three of us. My mom usually takes half of a six-inch chicken sandwich, and this time she took about half of that half. But she enjoyed our visit--especially since I did remember to bring along the bridge mix she also asked me to bring.
Our subs took care of supper, so the next step was a "surprise" for my wife: We went to the movies. When we got there, I made a point of groaning that "Hellboy II" had closed (a movie that I really did want to see; well, it'll probably be out on DVD in a few months). Then I went with Plan A and got two tickets to see "Mamma Mia."
My wife, a big ABBA fan, knew we were going to see it--I had mentioned it several times as something we'd do sooner or later--so it really was no surprise. So we saw it. It really wasn't anything tremendously profound except on the subject of living life joyously and loving people. I don't want to give the plot away if you plan to see it and haven't yet. But it was full of ABBA music, dance numbers, lots of color and action and Merryl Streep and Pierce Brosnan really singing their parts (ABBA songs, of course). I can see why "Mamma Mia" was such a big hit on Broadway, and they did a great job bringing that excitement to the stage.
So I enjoyed it, and my wife was very happy--she was singing along (softly) to the music next to me. My guess is that DVD will quickly be added to the inventory once it comes out.
Today, we have a new adventure awaiting us. We are going to a Renaissance Fair. They have a one-day Ren Fair in Ishpeming (near Marquette) today, and we're going there. I asked my wife about it, and she said she is much more interested in that than the Wisconsin Valley Fair (and the Herman's Hermits show) tonight. Plus, it's a shorter drive.
I've never been to a Ren Fair. I had wanted to see one this summer, but it got pushed to the back of my mind by the other things we've been doing. Then my wife heard about this one. She gets the credit for that.
In the Wikipedia entry about Ren Fairs, one writer says "If theme parks, with their pasteboard main streets, reek of a bland, safe, homogenized, whitebread America, the Renaissance Faire is at the other end of the social spectrum, a whiff of the occult, a flash of danger and a hint of the erotic. Here, they let you throw axes. Here are more beer and bosoms than you'll find in all of Disney World."
God, I hope this lives up to that description! Since it's in the U.P., which is extremely leery about the occult, danger and especially erotic things, I must remember to have realistic expectations.
We'll see. It's almost time to get in the car and find out for myself.
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6/29/2008 - Final countdown
I'm in the final countdown before my trip to that neopagan camp this week. Right now, I'm in the process of rounding up the stuff I will need and finding the stuff I have already. (Where are you hiding, head-mounted LED light?)
I invested in a larger cooler, capable of carrying taller Propel bottles. It's even big enough to carry frozen pizzas--they don't carry the kind we like in town, so it will come in handy during out of town shopping trips.
I also invested--that's the word I use--in a new brimmed hat I saw at Kohl's. It's a nice hat, that sells for $25. But it's the end of the season, so the price was cut to $12.50. Then, my wife had a Kohl's coupon worth $10 that expires on July 4th. It was in the car. It isn't any longer. A $25 hat for $2.50. Not too bad. And I gave them a little more room for back-to-school stuff, so everybody wins.
The temperatures in that area are supposed to be in the upper 70s/low 80s, and that's mild for the Fourth of July week in southwestern Wisconsin. They say a slight chance of rain Wednesday and nice the rest of the week. I leave on Wednesday morning and return home Sunday night, so that's four nights on the road.
My friend S can't go, but she suggested that I visit her on the way over there. So I will. It's a few miles out of the way, but not too much--instead of going west, then south, I'll go south, then west.
It will be our first visit without our spouses since Ontario in December 2005. Her husband will be at work, my wife will be back home, so it will be just me, her ... and two grandchildren. Except now she tells me the 8-year-old will be elsewhere that day, leaving just the 7-week baby.
So what's going to happen? Time will tell. Maybe we'll go to lunch. Maybe we'll have a nice long talk. Maybe we will amuse ourselves some other way. If I were a betting man, I'd put my money on "nice long talk." In any case, I want to be back on the road by about 1 p.m.--it's about another 3 1/2 hours to the camp.
On Saturday, I was in Marquette for a U.P. all-star high school football game. David came along and invested in a new printer for himself. Not much to report. Our end of the U.P. won 38-14.
That's all for this time. I will be working on some photos from the Milwaukee trip later tonight and plan to post them before I go. Right now, though, I'm going downstairs to watch something with my wife. Don't know what. We'll find something we like.
Meanwhile, if you see a head-mounted LED light somewhere, let me know.
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6/24/2008 - Empty nest syndrome
I have been getting some dangerous ideas lately.
Me? My ideas? Dangerous?
Dangerous in terms of breaking out of the status quo, the rut where my creativity has been stuck for a long time. I must confess to being in the doldrums mentally for more than a little while. Yesterday and today, I discovered some new ideas bubbling around in my skull. I just need time to work on them. Time at the keyboard. Time to think and develop them.
More on that soon, I hope. The big news at home is that the nest on our front porch is empty. We checked it with the mirror this morning, just as I went to work. All that was left was a single unhatched egg. Nobody else is around.
Frankly, I haven't felt too motivated to report on life inside the nest this year. But you have to understand, this is the fourth robin's nest on our porch in the last three years, so how much can I say or show about it that I haven't done before?
I did take a few pictures over the last couple weeks. This first one was taken the morning of June 11, as we left for the Milwaukee trip. At that time, we had two brand new baby birdies ...
The next picture was taken on June 17. My, how the little ones have grown!
Three days later, last Friday, they were poking their heads above the side of the nest when mom's shopping trips weren't fast enough for their hungry tummies ...
The next day, I may have inadvertently led to the nest's abandonment. I had to run to the office to get something, and I was late. I rushed out the front door ... forgetting the young family in the nest. Suddenly, there was a flurry of wings above and around me, and birds seemed to be flying everywhere. One of the young birds landed under an awning next door. There wasn't anything to do about it after the fact--I kept on walking to the office.
My wife said she didn't see any action at the nest on Sunday. We got out the mirror Monday morning, and this is what we saw ...
We spent most of Sunday in Iron Mountain, visiting my mom and seeing the newest Indiana Jones movie. We had planned to take my mom along, since she is a big Harrison Ford fan, and the Indiana Jones series were some of her favorite films. But she said she didn't want to go. She wanted to, she said, but her stomach just wasn't up to it.
I'll make some photos soon from our trip to Milwaukee. Last week was busy; I have a little more time next week.
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This is the week before next week ... when I return to that neopagan camp in southern Wisconsin. I went there for the first time in 2005, which was when I first met S. I took my wife there in 2006, but she didn't care for it, was unhappy--and we only spent a single day there. Grrrrrr. In 2007, I was focused on cleaning out my mom's house, and I decided not to go.
This year, I'm definitely going, and I will spend much of next week there. Like in 2005, I'll have my cell phone along so I call my wife and let her know I'm thinking about her. But she's not going this time. No way, no how. She hasn't asked or hinted, and I'm sure she knows what I'd say if she did.
In fact, S also wanted to attend this year, because she is interested in some of the planned discussions. (She really enjoyed the single day she was there in 2005.) A lot of last week was spent exchanging e-mails about the chances of her getting there somehow, but it's just not meant to be. So what I will be doing is recording those talks on the little digital tape recorder that I use for interviews. Back home, I can convert the files MP3 files, burn them to a CD and send it to her.
The topics?
“The Future of Religion.” Given the limits of rational knowledge and the negativity associated with religion, does religion have a future as a function of civilization? I----- [the guy who runs the event with his wife] thinks so as cults of mythopoetic enthusiasms or enchantments of a post-modern age. The talk will be given in the picnic shelter."
“A Neo-pagan interpretation of the Golden Rule, or why I am not a Christian.” I------ will explore the religious, philosophical and psychological meaning of this teaching. He will provide historical/cultural context and show Gnostic influence to the teaching."
In fact, S is involved in a church herself, a tiny church you haven't heard of, based on early Christian writings, such as the Gospel of St. Thomas.
Anyway, I'm getting off topic.
Here is more about it, from the e-mail I got:
The camp "is a place where people of like mind and shared values can camp, picnic, contemplate, honor the passing of life's seasons, create personal shrines, learn and recreate. It is a place where the human community & the community of nature can co-exist in peace and harmony.
"Come, enjoy and share this beautiful forest eco-system dedicated to the Green Growth of Eco-Human Community. This gathering will be held on a 60-acre parcel in southwestern Wisconsin in the driftless area. It has a mix of open hayfield (planted by a local farmer), pine and mixed hardwoods. The campsite is primitive (no water on site), but porta-johns and there is a 30X40 picnic shelter. Firewood is plentiful. The site is clothes-optional where landscape and night can provide the necessary privacy. A large circle in the woods has been cleared for ritual and celebration. [Village] is about 5 miles away where food, ice, gas and water can be obtained. Directions and other info will be sent to those who register."
Reference is made to "the driftless area." That is the southwestern corner of Wisconsin, which the glacier didn't cover during the last ice age. It's much more hilly there than the rest of the state, which was sort of scraped flat by the glacier.
I wear what most of the people wear at the camp: a T-shirt, shorts, sandals and a hat. But down at the circle (during special rituals and then at night around the fire, when the drummers really get going) many of them wear a lot less, and I am no exception. Most of the people there are in their 40s and 50s. Some younger people, but not as many.
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After writing this, I recalled about the first camp I attended, in 2005, and when happened over there. It got long, and I finally decided to use it in my Vox blog instead.
If it's not there now, check back in a day or two--I'm still working on it.
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Yesterday, I woke up with an idea: taking a trip west, by myself. By car. A few hundred miles to visit a friend I made here. Just a visit. I would get some nature photos along the way, of course. Go farther west than I have ever gone before in my life. An adventure!
I don't know. Am I too old for adventures? Is there time enough this summer? We'll see. I'll tell you, though, I really like the idea. Whether I can do it, that's another thing.
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6/15/2008 - Rough way to make a living
We're back from our mini-vacation. We got back Saturday afternoon after three nights on the road in eastern Wisconsin.
Things went fairly well. We ran into some heavy rain on Thursday, but don't get the wrong idea: It doesn't measure up (literally) to the rain that soaked other parts of the Midwest in recent weeks. They got more in the city where S lives; 4 to 5 inches of rain that night, enough to flood streets and create havoc.
Earlier on Thursday, we visited the Mitchell Park Conservatory and the Milwaukee Public Museum. The rain hit us as we were driving back to the motel--very heavy rain, but traffic on the expressway was fairly light and we got back to the motel OK. The rain stopped for an hour or two while we were having dinner, and then it started coming down hard again once we were back in the motel. Enough to create a river in the parking lot ...
The next day, we went north to Cedarburg, where my wife was raised, and saw several roads closed by high water ...
The little creek that passes through town was a rushing river, suitable for whitewater rafting ...
S said they wound up with about six inches of water in their basement on Thursday night. But by the time we got there late Friday afternoon, it was hard to see signs of the watery chaos.
That visit went well. She talked with my wife and I until her husband got back from work. Then we went for dinner at a Mexican restaurant (I had a "choriloco") and the next stop was the pool and whirlpool at our motel.
That was different. It was the first time I had been in an indoor pool in many years--maybe the first time since high school! And it was my first time ever in a whirlpool. That was fun. S and her husband stayed with us until about 10 p.m. We left for home the next morning.
In a few days, I'll write more about our trip and the things we saw. Right now, though, I want to show some of the shots I took at the rodeo that was in town recently. I like getting shots of the cowboy action.
First, a few "mood" shots. Like these cowpokes sitting on the fence, waiting for the show to start ...
Here's a cowpoke getting ready for his next ride--bandaging up the injured parts ...
And here is another cowboy, cigarette in place, getting his saddle ready. What magical concoction is he sprinkling on it? Baby powder ...
We saw a bull that must have been a magician. He sure made his rider disappear. Now you see him ...
... now you don't ...
One of the broncs must have been showing off for the camera. Honest. Here, he's got his head turned my way. "You want some action? Watch this!" ...
Yes, it's the cowboy with the smoke and the baby powder. First, off went his hat ...
Then he started bouncing up and down ...
Yeah, this bronco buster was getting some sick air ...
What goes up must come down ...
But it doesn't always come down where you want ...
Look out below! ...
And another cowboy winds up eating the arena dirt ...
Yes, he walked away from it. A little shakily, but he's a tough dude. You have to be if you want to do this for a living. Could be hazardous to your health.
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6/10/2008 - Muse got sleepy
I was going to stay up a little late on Monday night, writing about something that is on my mind. But I did a couple other things first.
Bad mistake.
I finally got back to the main reason for sitting at the keyboard ... only to discover that my muse had decided to turn in early.
Some things are on my mind. One is about Charlie. While watching her over the weekend, the lightbulb suddenly flashed on.
We have a problem with Charlie. Actually, it's with our older cat, Maggie, who is still not being sociable with Charlie. Maggie, after all, has been with us for 15 years. Charlie's been part of the household for something like three months.
In recent weeks, she has been coming up to Maggie and putting her nose next to Maggie's. Maggie responds to this by snarling and raising a paw. Charlie withdraws with what seems to be a puzzled look on her face. Other times Maggie is lying down, and Charlie comes over and sniffs her fur. Same thing.
It seems to me that Charlie just wants to be friendly, but Maggie isn't having any of it. After watching several of those encounters over the weekend, the lightbulb flashed on over my head. I thought: Charlie is lonely and wants somebody to play with.
We play with her, of course. Sometime it's a marble that we roll on the floor. Sometimes a cat toy--a ball with a little bell inside. Sometimes it's a pair of old shoestrings tied together. Athletic shoestrings, so they are a little stretchy. She enjoys playing with them. But we're not cats, and we've got our silly human things that we always seem to be doing, like going off to work or watching TV or sleeping. Well, Charlie understands sleeping. She's pretty good at it, too.
So now ... I'm really starting to wonder whether we ought to get another cat, a third cat, to be a friend and co-conspirator with Charlie. We know we will get another cat once Maggie reaches the end of her days. Now, though, I'm wondering whether we ought to wait that long.
The cats have been making themselves scarce at home this week: We have some guys putting in new windows upstairs. The old windows were old and ugly and barely worked and leaked heat like gangbusters. We finally could afford to replace them, and we did. So the guys started that on Monday, and Charlie has been using her favorite hiding place--the quiet, dark place behind the TV. When I come home at lunch and sit down and turn on the TV, Charlie comes out of hiding. Purr, purr, purr.
Meanwhile, Maggie has been in her favorite spot, as usual: the seat of an old comfy chair in an adjacent room where my wife does her sewing.
The kitties will be on their own this week. On Wednesday, we leave for a mini-vacation to the Milwaukee area, about 250 miles away. We will be in the city on Thursday, then north of the city, where my wife was raised, on Friday. On Friday night, we will visit S and her husband for dinner and whatever--to be decided. We complete the trip home Saturday morning.
We had the rodeo here over the weekend. Weather forecasts called for storms and wind and heavy rain. We had a little wind, but the other stuff passed far south of us. I took many shots of the action, and some of them are pretty good. I'll try to post a few soon.
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6/4/2008 - That's that
There. That's that.
I've definitely reached a breakoff point for 2008. The spring sports season is over--it ended last Saturday. Hockey season is almost over, too; the NHL playoffs, I mean. It's not over yet, but it will be in the next few days--maybe as soon as tonight.
I thought it would end Monday. We were less than a minute away from the Red Wings winning the Stanley Cup, but Pittsburgh scored a late goal, the game went into overtime, and about two hours later the Penguins got another goal to win it.
Their last gasp, I hope. It's gone on long enough. It's time to watch the Wings lift the cup. Then I can move on to other things. I want to turn the page. I have been very devoted to the playoffs, but it's gone on long enough. (Sometimes I think I am overly loyal--to my favorite sports teams and (without being too specific) to other parts of my life.)
Next week, my wife and I will be doing some other stuff. It's our first vacation trip this summer (not counting the April trip to that quilt show in Chicago). This time the destination is Milwaukee. We plan to visit the Milwaukee Public Museum, the Mitchell Park domes and some of the sights in a town about 30 miles north of the city, the town where my wife grew up. She says they have a quilt cottage or museum there. Or something like that. It's related to quilts, anwyay.
She said she would be doing some internet research on other places to go in that area.
As for me, I have no real plans. We lived in Milwaukee just after we got married (I was raised in the suburbs, went to school and worked in the city), but we moved away about 30 years ago, and the place has changed a lot. That, I feel, is my past life, and it's over and done with. I might be interested in seeing the Brewers, but my wife's tolerance for baseball is not much greater than it is for hockey, so I'll just let that pass. Frankly, it's not a big priority for me, either. Not any more. Things have changed, and I have changed, too.
About 10 years ago, I visited the suburb where I was raised. Needless to say, it wasn't very similar to my memories. I remembered some of the streets and the places I used to go. But that was long ago. Those places now live only in memory. What stands there now just isn't the same.
Whew! Getting sidetracked and philosophical there. 'Scuse me!
There is a chance we can visit S and her husband, since we'll be driving right past their city. I mentioned that in the e-mail I sent her earlier today.
I'm also going to lift several other paragraphs I wrote to her: just news updates. Good old copy and paste. So I will quote myself:
The high school sports season ended last Saturday with the track finals. I had the tennis and golf finals earlier in the week. Our local team won the U.P. championship in both boys tennis and boys golf, and the girls golf team was third. The track team didn't do as well. The other school I cover also won a boys golf title, and its track teams were third (boys) and fourth (girls) in the small schools division.
Anyway, all that's over. This weekend, we have the rodeo in town. We should return from our trip in time to get pictures at the local car show on Father's Day.
The other big event coming up in the near future is taking my mom to see the new Indiana Jones movie. She is a BIG fan of Harrison Ford, loved the other Indiana Jones movies, and I think a matinee show at the theater near the nursing home (less than five miles away) would be a nice treat for her.
Sort of a delayed birthday gift--she turned 86 last week. When I mentioned it to her recently, she sounded very interested. Not many things interest her nowadays, but that movie made the grade. She just seems a lot more tired more often than before. I suppose that is to be expected.
One more update: Ms. Robin has four bright blue eggs in her nest.
I didn't send S a picture, but here is a photo I took over the weekend. I got out the chair and mirron and camera and took a look. And inside ...
There was a storm the next night, with the wind kicking up after dark and a little thunder. I turned on the porch light. There was Mrs. Robin, loyally settled in on her future progeny ...
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The other news is a sad note about the passing of one of my all-time favorite musicians: Bo Diddley.
Oh, I love Bo Diddley. And I know how it all started. When I was a kid, the Rolling Stones were just coming over to the U.S.--this was 1965. At that time, they were mostly doing covers of R&B classics, not their original stuff. I liked their music, and I liked their songs--to the point where I looked at the record labels to see who wrote them. And I would see names like Burnett and McDaniel and Dixon.
Dixon was Willie Dixon. He authored many an R&B classic for Chess Records. Chester Burnett was the actual name of Howlin' Wolf. I know OF him at the time, but I never really got to hear much of his music until about 10 or so years ago. And it knocked my socks off. Great, great stuff. Howlin' Wolf instantly became one of my favorites.
But Wolf's music wasn't played on the pop radio AM stations around Milwaukee nor on the FM rock stations that followed. But you would occasionally hear from Ellas McDaniel--whose stage name was Bo Diddley. You would hear Bo Diddley's thumping, hard-rocking music once in a while--done by the man himself. More often, it was done by his disciples. I always loved "Mona" by the Rolling Stones, featuring Brian Jones' guitar work. That was ported over intact from Bo Diddley's version of the song he wrote. And the Yardbirds' rocking version of "I'm a Man," where they spelled the word out and launched that rocket into orbit. That was another Bo Diddley song. Another Bo Diddley classic.
Years pass, and I'm in a record store in Green Bay when I spot a 2-CD Bo Diddley box set put out by Chess. Now I finally had the real stuff. And it's great stuff, folks. I could hear the humor, the interplay with his band, especially maracas player Jerome Green. Bo and Jerome did "Say Man," where they would basically play an upbeat instrumental (guitar, piano and maracas), not sing a single note but trade insults about each other and their girlfriends all through the record.
It starts out ...
J: "Say man."
B: "What's that, boy?"
J: "I want to tell you about your girlfriend. Hehehe."
B: "What about my girl?"
J: "But you don't look strong enough to take the message."
B: "I'm strong enough."
J: "I might hurt your feelings."
B: "My feelings are already hurt, by being here with you."
J: "Well ... I was walkin' down the street with your girl the other day."
B: "Uh-huh."
J: "And the wind was blowing real hard."
B: "Is that right?"
J: "And the wind blew the hair into my face."
B: "Uh-huh."
J: "Hehe. And you know what else happened?"
B: "What happened?
J: "The wind blew her hair into her face."
B: "Yeah?"
J: "And we went a little further. Do you want to hear the rest of it?"
B: "I might as well."
J: "The wind blew her hair into the street."
He would brag about being a man. It seemed every other song had "Bo" or "Diddley" or both in the title. "The Story of Bo Diddley" is another funny one. "A man came up with a lo-o-o-o-o-o-ng cigar. And he said, Sign this line, and I'll make you a star." Man, he put out so much good stuff!
And he would do "Road Runner" and make his boxy guitar do riffs that garage bands tried to copy for years. He was trained in violin and played the violin in an instrumental. He'd sing about his home in Mississippi. He reminded us that "You can't tell a book by looking at the cover."
He never felt he got the credit--especially financially--for what he did for music. And he did a lot for music. That ever-present "Bo Diddley" beat. That "shave and a haircut" tempo. Bu-bu-bu-bu-bump-bump. Bump-bump. Many of his songs only used one chord. But would you believe he wrote the '50s song "Love Is Strange" by Mickey and Sylvia? It's true. "How do you call your lover boy?" "Come here, lover boy!"
Bo kept touring until near the end--a stroke finally took him off the road permanently. Now he's gone at the age of 79. The man who walked 47 miles of barbed wire. Who used a cobra snake for a necktie. Who had a brand new house on the roadside made of rattlesnake hide. Who had a brand new chimney on top made of a human skull. "Now come on, take a little walk with me, Arlene, and tell me who do you love?"
Here's one famous story. Bo was to appear on the Ed Sullivan Show in the mid 1950s, right about the time when Tennessee Ernie Ford had a monster hit with "Sixteen Tons." Bo recorded that song on one of his albums, and Ed Sullivan wanted him to do that song on his show. So he did "Sixteen Tons" during the rehearsal. And then, during the live broadcast, Bo steps up to the mike ... and plays "Bo Diddley."
Ed Sullivan was less than delighted. Bo never appeared on Sullivan's show again.
J: "I was out with your girlfriend the other day."
B: "Is that right?"
J: "Yeah. Man, that chick was so skinny she had to tie some knots in her legs to make some knees. Hehehe."
B: "Oh, that wasn't none of my girlfriends."
J: "Who was it?"
B: "That was your wife."
J: "Them is fighting words man!"
B: "Is that right?"
J: "You meet me in the alley tomorrow night, after dark, by yourself."
B: "That's OK with me."
J: "You gonna be there by yourself?"
B: :"I'll be there. All by myself."
J: "I know it, 'cause I ain't coming! Hehehe."
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5/27/2008 - Quiet holidays, love-ins and fun with math
Some time in the next day or two, I'm going to get the chair and mirror out to check out our new porch guest.
I may have scared Ms. Robin over the weekend because I dragged out the lawnmower for the first time this year. Most of the mowing was in the back yard, which had reached near jungle status with all the dandelions thriving there. Regardless of the fact that it has been a cool spring, the dandelions are full bloom.
That's not to say winter has entirely given up, however. There was ice on my car's windows when I got up this morning, and we're supposed to have a heavy frost again overnight, with temperatures dipping into the mid 20s.
We had a unusual Memorial Day holiday weekend. We stayed home nearly all the time, except on Saturday, when we (my wife and I) went off to visit my mom at the nursing home and do some shopping. My mom wasn't feeling terribly well, but we had a nice visit. We got a sandwich for her and her roommate at Subway. Today is her 86th birthday, so I'll phoned her tonight.
On Wednesday, I get to see her again. It's the first of three trips in four days I'll be making to the Iron Mountain area for high school sports finals. Tennis on Wednesday; golf on Friday; and track on Saturday. The track meet lasts all day, and I will be very busy with the camera. For a while it appeared that I would have to buy a phone for David; he said he needs a new phone--the old one is busted. But he called tonight--he visited the local "liquidators" store to see if they have phones, and they did. Apparently high quality workmanship is not a high priority.
He visited on Memorial Day. We watched a couple DVDs, he had some dinner with us, and spent some time upstairs on (I think) my computer. I had to drive him home at about 9 p.m.--it was in the mid 60s when he got here, and he wore a light jacket and T-shirt--but during the day a cold front blew through. By the time he had to go back to his apartment, it was around 40 with a cold wind from the north.
I spent Monday night (and Saturday night, after I got home) watching the Red Wings take apart Pittsburgh in the Stanley Cup finals. It's been way too easy so far, and while I suspect the Penguins will be a different team once they are back home (starting Wednesday), it sure looks like the Wings will lift the Stanley Cup in next week or so. They have been very impressive so far.
My wife will be relieved to know that hockey season is nearly over. She watched part of last night's game with me. Charlie is much more of a hockey fan; she sat with me through both games. She seems to enjoy hockey--of course, I was rubbing her tummy while watching, so maybe that had something to do with it. Saturday night, after the game, she came upstairs and sat on my lap when I was on the computer, so we had our own little love-in: I petted her, and she went purr, purr, purr. It was good for both of us.
My mind has been occupied with other things, too. The Midwest has seen a major tornado outbreak in the last few days that has caused a lot of destruction and taken many lives. One of the deaths was a 2-year-old boy who lived in the northern suburbs of St. Paul, Minn. It was just a few miles east of where my late aunt lived. In fact, when we visited that area last summer, we drove right past that town.
Except for the trip to see my mom, we stayed very close to home during the holiday weekend. Gas jumped up a full quarter last week (to $4.24/gallon), and we figure the easiest way to cut gas costs is to cut back on driving. I love to drive, and my car gets good mileage, but ...
Still, despite many people in our area belly-aching about the high cost of gas, they are still driving their bigass trucks all over the place. I don't mind big trucks if they are working trucks--if the owners need to haul stuff around. But many people seem to think that the bigger a truck is, the more tricked out it is, the better it is. And the faster they drive, the more they like it. All of which kicks your gas mileage in the chops.
So they whine about the cost of gas, and then they climb back in their heavy duty, king-size beauties, one person per truck, and drive all over creation. I mean, I drive a small car for a reason. I believe in efficiency. Others believe in the same thing, too. Others don't. What can I say? It's their wallet.
Tomorrow, I'm off to that tennis tournament. It's a 100-mile round trip. Let's do a little math. My car gets about 34 mpg. So 100 miles/34 mpg = 2.94 gallons. If gas is $4.24/gallon (as it is now), then the trip costs me $12.47 for gas.
Now let's say that instead of my little Mazda I'm driving a Bigass pickup that gets 14 mpg. Then the 100-mile trip burns up 7.14 gallons. At the current rate, that's $30.27 for gas, which is 2.4 times what I pay.
Now instead of the pickup, what would happen if we go there in a Hummer H2? These babies get 11 mpg on a good day. So the trip consumes 9.1 gallons, for a total cost of $38.54.
Isn't that interesting? That's more for one trip than I will pay for my three trips there and back.
You see, my theory is that many people buy the biggest, baddest truck they can afford regardless of their needs. Again, if you need to haul a lot of stuff, then that's what you have to do. What I'm saying is that many people buy way bigger than they need to. Prestige, and all that.
Here's another fun experiment. Let's say I'm going to a basketball game up in Houghton, which is 100 miles away--so 200 miles total. At $4.24, those 5.9 gallons cost me $24.93.
Now, how about the school bus that carries the team there? School buses get about 8 mpg. That's right--8. And not only that--they burn diesel, which currently sells for $4.99.99999.99999 at the pump locally.
So that trip consumes 25 gallons of diesel at a total cost of $125. Think about that, Mr. School Administrator!
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5/24/2008 - She's back!
A familiar visitor has returned. If you've been around here for a while, you will recognize her right away. I'll get to that in a few minutes.
Slowly (very slowly) but surely, our weather has been improving. We got into the 50s on Friday, and it might get as warm as 70 by Sunday. Not exactly shorts weather yet, though. I want shorts weather.
And we are seeing more critters. One morning last week, we saw this familiar visitor ...
He looked at us (watching from the kitchen window) for a moment or two and then resumed his breakfast ...
I have been getting a few questions from long-time readers about the robins, whose progeny have been documented here in the past. Are they back? Have they returned to their apartments under the front porch?
About two weeks ago, we saw the start of a nest, but later in the day everything was on the porch. No action after that until Thursday, when I saw this ...
But later that day, all the weeds and grasses were on the porch again. Oh well!
There is no stopping an idea whose time as come, though. Later in the day, we saw more work had been done. And then we saw ...
She flew off a second later across the highway, and I lost track of her. But a minute or so later ...
... here she was coming back with more stuff for her new nest.
By Friday morning, when I left for work, more work had been done ...
And by noon Friday, Ms. Robin was getting comfortable in her nest. Lots of stuff is hanging down, but it looks like this nest is going to be around for a while ...
In a few days, we will get out the chair and mirror and see whether anything is happening inside.
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The tough part of being a music fan is when you're out on the road, going somewhere. You want to take your music along, but it hasn't always been easy.
When I first started driving, eight-track decks were all the rage. I resisted the urge and finally got a cassette deck. My reasoning was simple: You can record cassettes. You can't record eight-track tapes. (Not to mention the fadeout and "ka-chunk" you heard when the music went from one track to the other.)
Then, in the mid '80s, CDs started coming out. Much higher fidelity. Much better sound. But my car was older, money was tight, and I had to improvise. I wound up getting a Walkman-like CD player with a wire that leads to a thing that fits in the cassette deck. Plug the plug into the cigarette lighter, and your music will play through the car's speakers.
That was cool. It got cooler after I learned how to burn CDs and could transfer music to CD-Rs that would play on the Walkman. Sometimes when I went on trips, I had two cases of CDs under the front seat, maybe 24 in each case. So that's up to 48 CDs making the trip with me. And by this time, I had another car, and, what do you know, it had a CD player in the dash.
But Murphy's Law of electronic devices is that there will always be something bigger and better. I first learned about iPods a few years ago from my older son--he showed how he downloaded podcasts and could take them with him. So that's something else new. Podcasts. About every topic imaginable. And some unimaginable. And you can take it all along with you in an iPod.
I finally had to get one for myself. It stored 30 gigs of stuff, and I thought I was set for life, especially after I got a dohickey that lets you play the iPod through the car's speakers. Cigarette lighters will never die--not as long as they power useful gadgets like that.
The 30 gigs that set me up for life didn't last that long with all the CDs I have collected over the years. Too much music from too many genres. Too many podcasts about too many topics. The wide open spaces on my iPod were filling up rapidly. Only one thing to do: get a bigger one.
I did just that recently. This one will store 80 gigs, and that's a lot of CDs and podcasts. All in this little gizmo that I can stick into a shirt pocket. I also invested in a new case--this time a brown leather case. It looks pretty sharp, don't you think? Plus, you can get a mini-glimpse of my high quality music library ...
So now I think I'm in good shape for music for quite a while. I hope I am, anyway. (You don't think I should have gotten that 160 gig model, do you?)
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5/21/2008 - The $40 mystery
It's a mystery that is almost a week old now, and I just haven't been able to crack it.
I have looked. In the car. On the floor. In every pocket of my pants, my jacket, my jeans. On my computer desk. In a folder of paper for a board meeting. Yes, even under the couch in the living room. Whatever its hiding place, it picked a good one.
Last Friday, I got paid at work. I filled out a deposit slip for the bank and took it there that afternoon. I deposited the entire amount except $40, which I wanted back in cash. You know, for cash on hand to cover this or that expense that comes up. The teller at the bank gave it back to me inside the envelope--I remember seeing the money there.
What happened to it since ... I can't say.
I've been looking. I looked in the car. On the floor. In every pocket, etc., etc., etc. Everywhere I can think of. No envelope. No deposit slip. No $40.
So I am appealing to all my regular readers over here. Have you seen an envelope with $40 in it (a pair of $20 bills)? If you have, would you be so kind as to send it over here? No questions will be asked.
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I had an interesting time last night. I decided to take a break from track meet after track meet to get photos at a girls fastpitch softball game in town. It's a relatively new sport around here, but I've seen it on TV and know how tense and exciting it can be.
Last night I also was reminded of one unalterable fact of life up here: You just can't depend on the weather. Especially in spring.
The sun had been out during the day, and it felt pretty nice. But this game was at 6 p.m. By then the sun was behind a thick deck of clouds. Not only that--the wind was kicking up. Out of the north. Blowing hard. And cold. Hard enough to ripple the pants some of the players were wearing. Cold enough for blankets and quilted coats, gloves and knit hats among the spectators ...
And some of the girls just weren't prepared. Oh, they know very well what cold weather is like up here. But they weren't expecting cold like this 2/3rds of the way through May. Some of the girls were wearing just uniform shirts and thin pants, like this batter ...
That's not going to keep the chill out. Some had sweats on under their shirts.
They played for 1 1/2 innings. It clearly wasn't getting any warmer. It clearly was getting windier. The trees along the street beyond the outfield were swaying with each gust. After that, the coaches got together with the umpires. Everyone agreed that this game was not meant to be played this night ...
So it was a short evening. I went back home, warmed up my hands (my gloves were back home--after all, I also had been led to believe that we were in late May) and stayed inside for the rest of the night.
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5/19/2008 - Off to a premiere
Hi, everyone. It's time for an update. It's Sunday night, and a quiet weekend is just about over.
It was a weekend when the weather started nice, then got cool. On Sunday afternoon, I don't think the thermometer ventured higher than 45F (+7C). That's pretty discouraging for mid May. But the advance forecast says we may hit 70 (21C) next weekend. That would be our first 70 of the year.
Tonight, by the way, we have a frost warning.
This past week featured a lot of driving to track meets, two of them out of town. This weekend, we decided to stay close to home--no trips out of town. The highlight of the weekend, I guess, was my sudden decision to see if there was a movie in town that my wife would like.
There was. "Prince Caspian," the new "Chronicles of Narnia" movie that just opened, was at our local theater during its first weekend of release. Usually, we have to wait a month or two or three--or else drive 50 miles to Iron Mountain. This time, the movie was here, so we said OK, let's do it.
There were two shows, at 6 and 8:30, and we opted for the 8:30 show. More teenagers and hardly any little kids constantly running back and forth to the concessions stand and the bathroom. We got our soda and some popcorn and settled down in the new seats. The theater put in some wider seats with arms that can be raised so we can sit close to each other. We enjoy doing that.
The thing of it is that my wife has been known to get sleepy while watching movies at home with me, but she promised to stay alert. And she did. We both enjoyed the movie. The only problem is that neither of us had read the book, so we didn't know the story that well. For that reason, the plot was a little hard to follow at times. But we made enough sense out of it, and we were quite satisfied with the story, the acting and how it all came out.
I was quite pleased when my wife wore a top that shows off more bosom than she normally does. So that was nice, too. Maybe we'll go off to more movies. The new Indiana Jones movie comes out in another week--we're planning to take my mom to see that one in June--and then "Mamma Mia" comes out that summer. My wife is a big ABBA fan, and several ABBA CDs are stored on my IPod.
Speaking of that, I finally opted last week to order a new Ipod. My old one, which I have had for about four years, is about maxed out on space--you wouldn't think 30 gigs would fill up so fast--and I had been on the verge of getting a new one for the last six months. All this time I was trying to decide whether to get an 80 gig model or a 160 gig model for $100 more.
I finally opted for the smaller model. I don't store TV programs or movies on it--just music and podcasts, mainly for use when I'm driving here and there. So I think the 80 gigs will last me a long time. Of course, I thought the 30 gigs would last me a long time, too.
The new one is going to be silver. The old one I have is black. I might recondition it and give it to my wife, if she's interested. There are portable radios (fairly inexpensive) that you can dock it to, so she could play it near her sewing machine or wherever she's working in the house.
Despite the cool weather, I was going to mow the back yard this afternoon. But there was a problem with the mower's handle, and I think I'll have to run to the hardware store tomorrow to get a big round-headed screw.
The paper has an early deadline this week because of Memorial Day holiday, so it's a short turnaround--we'll put one edition of the paper together tomorrow and another on Friday. It should make for a busy week. Another busy week.
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5/11/2008 - A distracted mind
Yes, kiddies, this is the classic update post, the post I write when I haven't written for a while and have been busy/preoccupied with other things.
So, in brief: Work. Stanley Cup playoff games. Special editions (that work ended this week). One morning last week, I covered a special meeting for news at 7:30 a.m. The usual sports stuff this time of year, mostly track meets. And, during a break in the hockey playoffs (no games between Sunday and Thursday), my wife and I watched movies several nights.
Yeah, one other thing. Late at night, the time I usually write, I have been playing a mahjong game on the upstairs computer. The ancient Chinese tile-matching game, only with the other three players disguised as the computer and no tiles for the cat to play with.
We have a tulip next to the house--just one--that has slowly been developing in our chilly spring weather. It opened over the weekend. Our tulip garden is in its full glory; the one and only flower has bloomed.
Also, the grass is growing again in the back yard, and I will have to get the lawnmower out this week. No sign of dandelions yet, but their happy leaves are turning dark green. Soon, I'm sure, I will see the stalks starting to rise.
Last Sunday night--I don't think I wrote about it--the hockey game went into the 4th overtime and finally ended at 1:25 a.m. local time. I watched it to the end from the couch, with Charlie next to me. She's my hockey-watching buddy--she stays around because I rub her tummy while watching the game. After the first overtime ended, I went off to the kitchen in search of goodies to sustain me for who knows how long. Eventually I wound up with a Propel and a few crackers. Charlie was still on the couch when I got back. And we watched the second overtime. And the third. I walked around again, to wake myself up a little. I was nearing the point when I'd have to call it quits--but then the Stars scored the winning goal, ending the eighth longest game in NHL history, and I went to bed.
Today was Mother's Day, of course. We went down to visit my mom on Saturday--the forecast called for rain and cooler weather on Sunday (though the rain never came this far north). I ordered flowers for both my wife and mom and got cards. For me, frankly, it's one of those check-all-the-little-boxes days--make sure you do all the things you ought to so nobody feels ignored or hurt. Flowers: check. Dinner: check. Card: check.
But it all got done, wrapping up with a broasted chicken dinner tonight.
(Father's Day? It gets ignored at home. That's just the way it is. I observe it by getting photos of the car show that is held in town that day every year. Nobody else will do it.)
Since the Chicago trip, I haven't been getting around much, except for track meets and visiting my mom. With the price of gas locally at $3.84/gallon, I've been cutting back a little here and there. Thank goodness my car is rather thrifty.
Otherwise, I'm still here. I'm not feeling the blog blahs that others have been talking about ... but at the same time, it's been hard to find spare time to write this month with so many other things claiming my attention. Like mahjong and playoff hockey games that extend into the wee hours. (OK, it was just one night.)
My mind is distracted. When it's as small as mine, it doesn't take much.
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4/9/2008 - Day 1
"Day 1 of what?" you probably are asking.
Day 1 of the NHL playoffs, of course!
For the next two months, most of my evenings will be spoken for. I'll be in front of the big TV in the living room (or at my computer desk, with the little TV nearby) watching whatever transpires, as 16 teams battle for one old, rather ugly trophy. It is nothing less than the Holy Grail, as far as hockey fans are concerned.
Thanks to some far-sighted work by our local cable TV service (of which I am a director), our local area will be seeing both the broadcasts on CBC and (for the first time this spring) on Versus. Tonight, the first night of playoffs, both channels are broadcasting two games. And wouldn't you know--they both chose the same two games!
But tomorrow night, they will also be carrying two games. And this time, each is different. Plus, the Detroit Red Wings have their first game on another channel. So that's five different games, three taking place early (6 p.m. start locally) and the other two late (9 p.m.).
Regular season games usually last about 2 1/2 hours. But during the playoffs, they go to sudden-death overtime, and if no team scores, they keep on playing. And playing. And playing. The longest game I have watched personally went to four overtimes.
That means they can go way late. I try to stay up to watch the fun, but when they start a period around 1:30 a.m., that's really pushing it for me. In the past, I have tried to make it until 2; after that I let the recorder watch the rest for me.
Those of you who aren't hockey fans won't understand. But Little Miss Confused (Minnesota Wild) does. Indigo Moon Arts (Red Wings) does. Kinnigurl (Vancouver Canucks--oops, they didn't qualify--Anaheim Ducks) does. And I think Texican is allied with the Dallas Stars, though I may be mistaken.
It's a lot of fun and a real adrenaline kick. The games are usually a lot more intense than regular season games, and there are incidents and dust-ups galore. There's tension, waiting for a good chance on goal or the next heavy hit. And each year, one player--each team's goaltender--can carry his team by doing his impersonation of a brick wall.
My team is the Detroit Red Wings. They had the league's best record this year, but I'm not absolutely sure how far they will go, due to injuries late in the season and sometimes erratic play in goal. One other thing bothers me, too. Many of the teams in their conference have beefed up with muscle players who can really deliver a hit. That's not Detroit's game--they go with speed and finesse. That trumps heavy hitting--as long as the top players stay healthy.
Bottom line is, I don't know. I'm hoping for the best, and the story will be told over the next two months.
By some odd coincidence, today was the day when several hockey-related websites have amped themselves up with new content. NHL.com has new video channels and TSN.ca debuted a new look today, also with video links.
We don't get TSN here (the Canadian flavor of ESPN), but CBC and Versus will be watched closely over the next few weeks.
It's a lot of fun, and believe me, I have been eagerly waiting for this. And I'll stay with it to the end, no matter what happens to the Red Wings.
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The trip to Chicago is definitely up in the air right now. It's because of the weather.
A massive storm will be passing through the eastern U.S. late this week. Parts of the U.S. expect a major tornado outbreak. Other parts (including some of the tornado areas) will see flooding rains on top of rivers that are already over their banks.
Areas near Duluth, Minn., are facing a blizzard. DeeJay will have to make her pre-blizzard shopping trip. And Little Miss Confused will be handling all those anxious shoppers.
Us? We're just supposed to see some snow, sleet and wind up here. Relatively speaking, pretty small potatoes. But I'm the driver.
It's just too hard to call right now. Right now, the warning areas include only the northern tier of counties in northern Wisconsin. If that's really the case, maybe we could drive out of it as we go south. After that, we'll only see rain and wind.
(Sigh.) I'm afraid it's not going to be a pleasant trip. I'm really tired of winter, especially when it extends into mid April. And when I have to drive through a snowstorm ... it's something I try to avoid as much as possible.
So I just don't know right now. We have at least another 36 hours to make a decision--we don't get into the car until Friday morning.
The forecast for Friday is already talking about 3 to 5 inches, following rain, sleet and snow Thursday night. I'm crossing my fingers.
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We got about 4 inches of wet snow overnight. Ironically, as I was walking home for lunch, I saw a robin--the first robin I've seen this spring.
He was sitting on the roof of the building across the street. He was looking anxiously at a map, and I think he was swearing,
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4/6/2008 - Charlie's fishing trip
I had some time Wednesday night to work on photos. Once that work was done, I uploaded them to Photobucket and then started writing a blog entry. I'd say I was about 98% finished with it when I hit the magic combination of keys. I think it was Alt-Cmd-Shift-Z+ Enter. Whatever it was, it was enough to go back to the previous page.
When I hit the forward key again, I discovered that all my dubious creativity had disappeared for a different dimension in a parallel universe.
The Twilight Zone, for short. Let's just say that I was not pleased. As I said at the time, "Grrrrrr."
The most recent photos I worked up were from the big snowstorm early last week. The April Fool's Day storm. It started on Monday afternoon, and really got going after dark that night. When I looked out the back door window on Tuesday morning, the back porch looked not at all like it had the day before, when most of the snow was gone ...
The snow shovel was still in position, but now it wore a cloak of white. The railings were burdened with snow. And the wind was throwing around more snowflakes from the roof of the neighboring building. It looked a lot like January.
That was before I shoveled the front walk, caught a glimpse of Plowman, moved my car, and spent the morning at work. By the time I went back for lunch, here's what it looked like--with the addition of my footprints on the porch ...
The wind had stopped, and while the snow was still pretty deep on the porch, the sun was starting to work on it. Later that afternoon, my wife put the shovel to work. On Wednesday, the sun was out for most of the day, temperatures got to close to 40, and the snow melted a little more. For the next two days, temperatures kept climbing ... into the 50s on Thursday and Friday and well into the 60s on Saturday. Much too warm to wear our jackets when we went to Iron Mountain to visit my mom--although we were glad we brought them along when the sun started setting. By the time we got back home, we were back down around 40.
With all the warm weather, the snow has taken a severe pounding--but they are warning that some snow may come back here on Tuesday night. It was snowing in Minnesota and the Dakotas on Sunday morning.
OK, now for the long-promised pictures of Charlie. She has been a busy little cat lately.
A week or so back, it was late at night, my wife was in bed, and I was at the computer when Charlie came to visit. This time, she climbed from my lap up onto the desk and lay down among the cables, papers, magazines and pens that normally reside there. Charlie doesn't mind a cluttered desk ...
Then she reached down and started fishing around in the desk drawer. Something had caught her eye. What was she after? ...
Look! I think she's got a bite! Slowly, carefully, she pulled out her catch of the day: the earbuds from my iPod ...
But Charlie! Kitties don't listen to iPods! And they aren't made the right size for kitties! You can try it if you want, but ...
Do you know what this shot reminds me of? The famous picture of that little white dog who seems to listen intently to the sound coming from a gramophone. Is this a 21st century version of "His master's voice"?
A few days later, I was watching something on TV while my wife was working at her sewing machine, sewing some scraps of fabric together for a quilt top. Seated nearby, enjoying a box seat view of the action, was Charlie ...
Her kitty mattress was the box where my wife keeps some of her fabric scraps. I got a little closer and discovered that Charlie was watching closely as my wife ran the sewing machine. Except when I distracted her ...
My wife said that the whirr of the sewing machine at first bothered Charlie, but she's clearly gotten over that. Here, she tries to steady my wife's hand as she guides the fabric to the needle ...
Now how's that for a helpful kitty? When I got a little closer, she wriggled towards me to get her head scratched ...
Of course, there's one thing that cats can do better than any human: relax and hang loose. Here, Charlie shows us how it's done, in her own style ...
And it looks like my wife has taken a lesson from Charlie, simply by sitting next to her. Sweet dreams ...
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The big thing coming up for us this week is pretty darn big, all right. We are going to that huge quilting show in Chicago, near O'Hare Field. We plan to leave next Friday morning (stopping in to visit S and her husband on the way south), spend Saturday at the show and drive back home on Sunday.
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4/1/2008 - The joke's on us
I had a great April Fool's joke played on me today. So did everyone who lives in this region.
Last week, temperatures were slowly (ever so slowly) edging up. The snow in the back yard was almost gone, and I dared think that maybe we were done with winter. Then a storm formed over the weekend, and we were forecast to get 8 to 12 inches of snow. It started mid afternoon Monday, but lightly.
It was still light snow after dinner, when I happened to look at the back porch. The footprints I made when I came home from work several hours earlier were still mostly uncovered. I speculated to my wife that maybe it's not going to be too bad of a storm.
Silly me!
By 8 p.m., the snow was coming down like gangbusters, and it kept on coming for most of the night. When I got up this morning, everything was covered with a thick blanket of white.
How thick? I'm estimating 12 inches easy. I never got out the yardstick. After breakfast today, I set out to clear the front walk. It was supposed to be heavy, wet snow ... and it sure was. Heart attack snow, they call it. And I'm in my late 50s and take some heart medicine.
But my arteries are in very good shape, so it was simply a matter of not overheating, not overexerting and keeping at the shovel. I got to the highway, walked back and started clearing the walk to the neighbor's house (used by the mail carrier--a convenience for her).
It was a little windy, and a few flakes were still flying around but it didn't bother me. Let me put it this way. I've shoveled snow this winter when it was 30 above and I've shoveled snow when it was 10 below. I'll take the 30 above assignment every time.
I noticed my wife had come to the front door. At first I thought she just wanted to watch me throw snow around or guess how much snow we had gotten. But then, down the gap behind the houses, I saw him. Plowman was here!
Plowman is the guy with the big pickup truck and the snowplow who clears the parking area used by our two homes. My car sleeps outside--it looked like a giant snowball on wheels. So I quick had to go through the house, wade down the snowy steps and down the walk to the car, get out the brush and clear enough snow off the windows (we got 12+ inches in the back yard, too) so I could navigate the vehicle. And I had to do it fast--Plowman was nearly done. But he had seen me come out and was waiting for me.
I started up the car, rolled forward a few inches, then backwards and around. Advanced down the alley (to give Plowman the room he needs to do his thing), where I stopped and cleared more snow from the windows and lights.
Before I started shoveling I took a few photos and wanted to get more, but Plowman's arrival pushed that thought out of my mind. Maybe I'll post those I did get in a day or two.
Late winter snowstorms are no fun, especially when the snow is wet. But I look at it another way, too. True, the snow is very wet. That means lots of water content, so it will be melting quickly once temperatures get back into the 40s, like they are supposed to later this week. It will be sloppy and slushy and muddy for a while. Well, that's spring for you. And our water table needs the moisture--it's been a relatively dry winter up here.
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It's still very quiet on the local sports beat. But the track teams are practicing for the new season, which starts in mid/late April or whenever the snow melts, the grass grows and it's possible to run around in shorts.
Our plans for the Chicago trip (a week from this weekend) are still on. We may visit S briefly on our way south, but only for an hour or so. She doesn't know if her husband can get free to see us. On the trip north, we figure we'll be in no mood for visiting--both too tired and to eager to get home.
I haven't been writing as much as usual lately. Put some of the blame on Charlie. At nights, after my wife goes to bed, I often go to read blogs or write a new entry of my own.
But then I hear an "Urrow?" from under the desk. Yes, that's who you think it is. She hops up on the chair next to me and then steps over onto my lap, where she lies down. Sometimes she sits there quietly for a while and then moves on. At other times, she's snuggling and purring loudly. Buzz! Buzz! Buzz! I should try recording it--it should be loud enough for my little recorder to pick up.
After a while, Charlie goes back to the other chair, where she lies down. But then I look over at her ... and she's looking back at me with sleepy eyes. I start feeling it, too. It's getting late. I shut down the computer, take my pills and head for bed.
A few minutes after I lie down, I feel her walking across my legs and then lying down next to my knees or shins. She stays there most of the night. Menage a quatre (with Maggie in position in the opposite corner, next to my wife's pillow).
Intersting thing about Charlie is that she makes a soft, husky sound when she's sleeping. At first we thought she was snoring. But it doesn't come from her throat--we learned it's from her chest. Maybe it's related to purring.
Charlie is a smart cat, and she has been learning things at our house already. I've got photos, and I'm planning to share them before we head off to the Windy City.
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3/26/2008 - A friend to the deer
About two weeks ago, I interviewed a guy about his Coast Guard career. He lives deep in the woods now, but he served the Coast Guard on the Great Lakes, North Atlantic and the Pacific (during Vietnam) for close to 30 years. Interesting guy. Nice fellow, who just turned 72.
The interview was for an article I wrote for our annual veterans issue, which we have been working on for the last few weeks.
As I was leaving, I saw a deer on his lawn. It's the kind of deer that doesn't move when you walk up to it, with an inch or two of snow on his wooden back. "Hey," I said in jest, "I see you have a deer on your lawn."
"Yes, we have them here all the time." He was taking me seriously--no laugh in his voice--so I looked around. He was looking out another window, and there were real live deer out that window.
It seems the guy puts out bales of alfalfa for the deer during winter (which is still hanging on up here), about 20 yards from his house. I looked out, and there they were ...
It was lunchtime, and we watched as more deer walked through the trees to the buffet, while others left ...
He saw I was interested in getting pictures. "I'll see if I can get them to come a little closer." We went outside, and he went to a shed, where he keeps some of the feed he puts out (never corn, he says; it makes them fat), filled up a coffee can and threw out some of it on a far corner of his driveway, where it had been plowed ...
Some of the deer were already looking. Moments later, they started moving in. But there was a guy with a camera standing nearby, and the thing would click at times. Loud enough so the deer backed off.
The Coast Guard vet shook my hand, said goodbye and headed inside, while I got into my car. But as I glanced off to my left, I noticed the deer were starting to move back in ...
And as I sat there, watching, more started moving in ...
In just a few minutes, quite a crowd had gathered--with a few standing watch ...
So it was a good morning to be a deer--at least a deer living near this fellow.
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Overall, though, winter has dragged on way too long up here. It's not that we're still getting occasional snow. That's to be expected. The problem is that it's still so cold, and we really haven't gotten even a sniff of warmer weather. I just checked yesterday--we haven't had a high temperature of 45F or above (+7C) since back on Nov. 14, over four months ago. The advance forecasts call for more of the same.
It's gotten me down, I guess. Winter has had its time, and now it's time for it to move on. It has outlasted its welcome. Winter: Take the hint. When spring started last week, I deliberately stopped using my long winter coat and switched to my spring jacket (which is still heavy enough to ward off all but winter's worst).
It's just a lot of waiting and impatience now. The next big thing for us is the trip to Chicago, for that huge quilt show my wife wants to attend. It takes place over the second weekend of April. We are trying to decide on a schedule and whether we can visit S and her husband, either on the way south or on the trip back north. (All of us want to visit, but it's hard for her husband to get time off from his jobs (plural).)
Also, I need to do some research. Last night I spent some time on Google Earth, getting reacquainted with the highways around Chicago--in particular, the Tri-State Tollway near O'Hare Field, the area where the megashow takes place.
For my safety and sanity, I think it's in our best interests to focus on the show and not on other sightseeing or shopping. My wife gets tired, especially her feet, when she's been walking around all day (shopping, for example), and I really don't want her feeling worn out halfway through the show.
If we do a lot of shopping the day before the show, her legs won't be 100% for the big day. Of course, sitting in the car all day isn't the best thing, either. Basketball and football coaches always talk about the "bus legs" their players get when they have to make a long ride to the site of a game.
I want to take my camera to the show, and I probably will. But my main job description will be as pack mule--carrying around all the stuff she picks up at the different booths--and, of course, chauffeur. So I'm expecting to be walking around the show with the camera around my neck, trudging around while carrying several heavy bags of stuff.
After the show, she will be able to rest. We'll probably spend that night very quietly at the motel. The next day, we point the car back north.
That is also the first weekend of the Stanley Cup playoffs. The tradeoff for the pack mule is that he will be watching hockey on the motel's TV the night before the show. The night after, she won't care--her feet will be tired, and she'll be too busy looking over all the stuff we picked up at the show. Unless she zonks out from sensory overload.
That's two weeks away. This weekend, it's Draft Day for the fantasy baseball league I run. I've done that for years, but last year I stopped running my own team. Frankly, I'm just not as interested in baseball as I used to be, for a number of reasons. This year, though, I will be drafting players for someone else's team. He has to be out of town (for work) that day, so I said I would pinch-hit for him.
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3/19/2008 - Party animals
On a sunny morning a few weeks ago, while I was putting on my coat to go to the office, my wife happened to glance out the kitchen window. Then she called me over.
"I think we missed a big party," she said.
I looked outside. No question about it. We missed a big shindig at the bunny club ...
Turning towards the left ...
When I went home for lunch, I took more photos as evidence. This is looking towards my wife's little lilac bushes ...
I walked next to the car and took a shot ...
There were two areas with plenty of footprints. This one must be where they set up their disco and did the bunny hop ...
The other one was around the base of the neighbor's big lilac bush. I can't really tell what went on here, but there plainly was a lot of traffic ...
I think there's only one thing we can say for sure: There probably will be plenty of baby bunnies hopping around in the weeks to come.
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It's been rather quiet here. I haven't been driving that much due to the rising cost of gas and the near total quiet on the local sports scene. I got some photos of a local hockey tournament last weekend, and there's a youth wrestling tourney this Saturday.
Today, I drove up to Marquette for a sportswriters' meeting. They still have plenty of snow up there, but it was a sunny day, and the roads were dry. It was a lot warmer than the last time I went to an all-U.P. basketball meeting ...
I talked recently about getting a new TV. It arrived during the day Monday, I set it up, hooked up all the cables and--after finally discovering a bad cable connection at a splitter, we have been enjoying it a lot. Monday night, we watched "2001: A Space Odyssey." Tuesday, it was the 1940s comedy "Harvey" with Jimmy Stewart.
Tonight, the feature was "Microcosmos," a French nature documentary about mostly bug life. That was a great show with the big screen and stereo sound. We also watched the end of tonight's Red Wings game, an episode of "Gunsmoke" and some Popeye cartoons.
Charlie (our new cat) has been sleeping most nights next to my legs. On recent nights, it's been playtime after the lights go out, as she pursues, stalks and pounces on hands moving mysteriously under the covers. After a while, she is ready to settle down and get to sleep.
She's just like a little kid at times. For a while, she is playing busily and energetically. Then you get busy with something else for a few minutes, and when you turn back she is fast asleep. Ah, for the life of a cat!
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3/4/2008 - Getting busy at home
Sometimes things happen fast, and you just have to deal with it.
My father-in-law died just before Christmas, and since then his sons and daughters have been working on all the stuff at the house. (Like I did last summer at my mom's house.) They had been planning a family meeting to discuss the estate, etc., and invited us to come over, since they had arranged for a financial counselor to come over and talk with us. We told them we regretfully must miss it, due to my work and winter weather. It's about 175 miles away.
But after all the teams I cover exited at the first (district) level of basketball playoffs, the trip suddenly seemed much more possible. The last team was eliminated Wednesday night. I talked it over with my wife on Thursday, and on Saturday we drove to Ladysmith.
She wasn't sure until Saturday whether she would go. First of all, I knew I couldn't stick around--I had to be back at work Monday, the day the financial consultant was coming over. Then, the weather forecast was talking about freezing rain on Sunday--so I didn't want to drive back Sunday. In the end, we left at 3 p.m. Saturday. I drove her to one of her sisters, and within a half hour I was driving back east. Got back home at about 11:30 p.m.
On Sunday and Monday, I "batched it" at home, taking care of myself and the two kitties. Things went OK. Rather quiet. I did some reading and went through a few things--stuff to clean up and throw out--while keeping the kitties fed and loved up. Sunday afternoon was spent on the couch, the new cat on my lap, sleeping and purring, as I watched a recording of a hockey game (Devils vs. Canadiens) from the night before.
My wife was driven back home Monday by a sister. She was accompanied by boxes and boxes of cargo. Lots of stuff from my father-in-law's place. From the freezer, from the fridge, from the closets, from the kitchen. Boxes and boxes.
The most immediate problem was several large bags of frozen stuff--meat, beef cuts and the like. We don't have a freezer of our own, except for the little one on top of the refrigerator. So what could we do? We couldn't take it inside. Where could we put it?
There was no choice but to leave all the frozen stuff on the back porch overnight, under a tarp. Under normal circumstances that wouldn't be a viable option, either. But this time it was. The temperature was right around 0 F when she got home, and it dropped down to about -15F (-26C) overnight. Who needs a freezer? My wife called one of her friends, who said we can take the frozen stuff there today--she has lots of empty space in her freezer.
After that, my wife has to do a triage of the other things that came home with her. Some of it will be delivered to St. Vinnie's. Some, to the bible training center out of town, which always needs household products. Some will basically be thrown out.
I'm doing some of the same kind of work inside. On Sunday, when not watching hockey or playing with the kitty, I was working on a corner of the living room, moving out various cassette tapes and CDs. The tapes are being junked. The CDs will be boxed; some will be kept, some will wind up at St. Vinnie's, too. The ancient stereo equipment I got from my brother after he died was scrapped--it hasn't been used for years. The big cabinet on which everything sat may wind up at St. Vinnie's, too.
We are clearing space for a big table that will hold my recorder and VCR, some DVDs and a new TV we plan to buy fairly soon.
Upstairs, I also was working in the computer room. I have a color inkjet printer and a black-and-white laser printer. The color printer came when I bought the new computer a year or so back. Recently, while thinking about printers, I realized I could have both of them hooked up to the computer--something I wanted to do, since it's cheaper to print routine stuff with the laser printer.
That has now happened--the HP Laserjet is the default printer, and if my wife wants to print something in color, it's easy to switch output to the Dell inkjet.
But first I had to clear space (on the floor in front of the printer stand) for the laser printer, and that meant clearing out CDs and stuff and junk. Brochures from possible future family cars. Office supply catalogs. Magazines. Dust bunnies (they have been propagating prodigeously). Pens. Cables, such as the one that recharges my cell phone and the one that links my camera to the computer.
It's still a mess, and I didn't get done, but it's a lot better than before. More work needs to be done there. At least I'll have a lot more time at home for a while, with basketball out of the way.
My wife was tired after she got home. We went out for a pizza after her sister left. (She had to hustle back home, too.) The rest of the evening was quiet, talking about this and that--mainly, how I fared by myself for two days.
I fared fairly well. I had been thinking about making some clam chowder for supper on Sunday--my wife told me what to use--but I opted instead to hit the drive-through at a fast food place. The kitties got fed on schedule.
It was a little lonely for both/all of us. But last night was a lot better. We just sat together, and that was nice. Then we slept together. That was nice, too. Back to our "menage a quatre."
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2/29/2008 - Menage a trois
Since I was a teenager and got interested in sex, I have fantasized about being in bed with two girls. I really wanted it to happen. I dreamed about what it would be like. Once, in mid 2005, it almost did. But it didn't.
But now it has. For the first time in my entire life, I have slept between two females. I was between them, and they both cuddled up with me all night when not sleeping. And we all slept very well, too.
On my right side--my wife of so many years.
On my left side--my cat of the last five days.
Yes, I suppose you could call it a menage a trois, the three of us all cuddled together. Maybe you could even call it a menage a quatre ("quatre," pronounced like "cat" in English, is the French word for "four"). Because there was another quatre on the bed--Maggie, who still sleeps next to my wife's pillow.
Life has changed a lot since the new kitty (still unnamed) joined our household last weekend. It's best summarized by the old saying "Never a dull moment."
It could cut into my nighttime writing at home, which is done upstairs, at the desktop computer. I do a lot of my computer work after my wife goes to bed, checking on websites, researching this and that, playing games, catching up on your blogs or working on mine.
Now, when it's "time to go upstairs," the kitty comes up to join me. Sometimes she sits on the folding chair next to me. That's OK for a couple minutes. But then I hear a "Mrow?" and she steps over onto my lap. Sometimes she lies down. But then she looks up and reaches toward my head with her paws and stretches up into my chest. So I hold her with one arm while piloting the mouse with the other hand.
I can navigate websites pretty well with one hand. But it really crimps your style when you're trying to write something.
Finally it gets late, and I shut off the computer. "Time to get some sleep," I tell her, and I put her on the chair, while I take my pills. Then we head off to bed. I usually place her on that blue thermal blanket next to my side of the bed, and she stays there for a while. Then, there's a little bump next to me, and kitty is settling down by my side. Sometimes she's by my hip. Other times, by my feet.
For all her qualities, Frisky didn't like to be held and cuddled. This one loves it. She rubs up against us and purrs loudly. That's one difference. Another is that this cat has a more extensive vocabulary. She can meow and purr and mrow? and urrrk! and a few other noises that are harder to write. Frisky had a quieter voice and didn't say as many different things.
One more thing about this cat that's odd is her coloration. As you have seen from the photos, she's mostly gray. Her feet and tummy are white, and she has a patch of white at her throat. Meanwhile, her tail is nearly black. Her nose is black. One cheek is gray, and the other is white.
During the day, she has mostly been camping out on the couch, but she has also been spotted next to my wife's sewing machine--just below an old, old photo of Frisky and Maggie posing on a wooden ladder ...
Maggie is still hissing at her at times. An occasional growl. So far, they have not had a physical scrap (at least not that we are aware of).
Today is the day we load her back into the cat carrier and take her to the vet, to get the stitches on her tummy removed. She probably won't enjoy that, but hopefully if we hold her maybe she will understand that we won't let anything bad happen to her.
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My winter sports season has come to a rather abrupt end. The girls basketball district tournaments were last week, and both our teams lost, one in the first round and one in the championship game. The boys district tourneys were this week, and the same thing--both lost, one in the semis and one in the finals.
Last week, I had four games in four days. Next week, I won't have a thing, and it's going to stay that way for quite a while. The high school spring season (track, golf, tennis) doesn't start until late April. Considering that it was -8F on my way home Wednesday night and that we received another inch or so of snow overnight, it tells me that spring won't be here for a while.
So what am I going to do with all my free time? Last night, I worked on taxes--both my son's and my mom's. David made out like a bandit--he was eligible for the earned income credit this year.
My mom doesn't have to file and hasn't for years--but if she files a tax return and her Social Security payments for the year were $3,000 or more (they were), she is eligible for that $300 rebate.
If any of you are handling business matters for an elderly mom or dad, that's something you may want to keep in mind. Tax tip from Dr. Dog.
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2/25/2008 - New feline in the family
(Since efx2blogs was out of service last night, the good folks at Vox were the first people to see this.)
On Saturday, when we took the new member of our family home, she cried all the way.
But it's turning out all right. She's not crying any more.
Last Saturday, we selected our new cat at the local shelter. You saw her picture from the paper last time, and you'll see some better pictures soon. On Wednesday, she had her spaying and declawing operation. The declawing does cause some pain to the kitty (as does the spaying, I'm sure), so the shelter wanted to keep her until Saturday. We were disappointed, but the shelter said we could come over to visit. That sounded fine with us.
So we drove over after lunch Friday, and here is the kitty in her little cubicle, which is a lot smaller than a three-foot cube. She's licking her paw, post-declawing ...
We took her into the visiting room, where we held and petted her for about a half hour ...
Then we had to go, and I put her back into her cage. She had been there for two months. This was the final night, and the card on the cage had a happy message as she went back to licking her paw ...
Saturday, I worked at the office until about noon. Then, I walked home, we grabbed the "pet taxi," got in the car and made our trip to the shelter. I filled out the last of the paperwork and the instructions--the pink stuff on her cage is medication we have to give her three times a day until it's gone. We also got some samples and things we have to send in.
Finally, it was time to get the kitty and put her into the pet taxi. But she didn't want to go in. We finally got her in there, but she started meowing. And as we carried her to the car, she kept meowing. All through the trip home, she kept crying. We tried to reassure her that this time she isn't going back to the vet's office.
Instead, we parked behind the house, took her and the pet taxi inside, took off our coats and got ready to let her out. But Maggie saw us arrive and seemed to immediately suspect something. She walked right over to the (closed) pet taxi, looked through the grate and started hissing. Then, a growl. We decided it would be a good idea to take the pet taxi into the living room. There, we opened the door, and the kitty walked out into her new home. She walked around, her nose working like mad.
We let her do that for a few minutes. Then we decided it was time to start reassuring her that it was nothing to cry about. So I petted her. Then my wife petted her. Then I petted her. Then she did. And I got the camera out. Say cheese, kittycat ...
There was a little more hissing and growling between the cats (the new kitty did some growling and hissing, too), but that's as far as it has gone. Sunday, there was less of it. At least until 9 p.m. when they got their dander up. Just hissing and growling. They have to work through it.
Meanwhile, the kitty spent a lot of quality time with the two of us, getting petted and loved up. For her part, she did a lot of purring. And her rough little tongue made sure we had nice, clean fingers ...
David came over during the day to meet the new kitty, and he stayed around for most of the day. He got his chance to pet her. After supper, we decided among several movies he brought and opted for "The Simpsons."
Because of her paws, we were very careful so she would not have to jump down anywhere, and we carried her a lot on Saturday. Sunday, not so much. She was climbing the stairs all right and jumping up onto the couch. Usually, it was when I was sitting there. We still place her on the floor. But her paws seem to be getting better.
Yes, I got a chance to spoil the new kitty, too ...
See her tummy? That's where she had the operation. Late this week, we have to take her to the vet, to have her stitches removed. That ought to be fun.
And so that's how it's been this weekend. I didn't have a lot of writing to do, and that's a good thing because it would have gotten put off. I had other priorities, like getting to know the new kitty a little better.
Last night, my wife and Maggie went to bed early, Maggie taking residence on her normal corner of the bed, next to my wife's pillow. I was up for a while, trying to get caught up on blog entries at efx2, with the kitty curled up by my feet. Earlier, my wife found a blue thermal blanket we had gotten from my mom's house, and I laid it out under the window, next to my side of the bed. I placed the kitty there when I went to bed.
She stayed for a while. Then she hopped down. During the night, she was up and down a few times. I heard Maggie hissing once or twice. Then it was quiet again. In the morning, she was back on the thermal blanket. She jumped on the bed for a while just before I got up.
I adjusted the thermal blanket tonight, moving it about a foot closer to my head, so I can reach out during the night and pet her head if she is there.
Right now, it's about 9:30 p.m. and time for the kitty's final dose of medicine for today. I hold the kitty, while my wife uses the eyedropper. She squirms, but she's pretty good about it.
We were just saying tonight that those two months in that little cage at the shelter must seem a long time ago now for the newest member of our household.
By the way, we aren't referring to her as "Sparkle," her shelter name. No name has been selected yet. We'll come up with something, I'm sure. So far I have referred to her as Invisicat, for her obvious skill in hiding in shadows, but I need something catchier and more clever than that.
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2/22/2008 - The dark side of the moon
(Put on some early Pink Floyd music if you like.)
The lunar eclipse took place Wednesday night here in the States. But I had to cover basketball games on four consecutive nights this week, so this is my first free time to do my show and tell.
I was reminded of the eclipse as I was driving east to my game and saw the moon rising over the trees ...
Yes, the sky was purplish-pink--it was just after sunset.
I covered my game and went home. I knew what I wanted to do once I got back--get out my tripod and take some pictures from the back porch. As I neared home, I noted the temperature: -8F (-22C).
Well, that's pretty cold, all right, but look: This will be the last lunar eclipse visible here until late 2010. And it wasn't cloudy. I decided I wasn't going to let a little cold get in the way of some pictures.
It took some time to get the tripod and camera set up and to remember how to use a remote shutter release. By the time I got my first picture, the eclipse was already well under way. 8:33 p.m. ...
8:47 p.m. ...
I had adjusted the shutter speed (faster) to get some of the detail of the moon's surface. Now I adjusted it back (slower speed) to get the orange color of the shadowed lunar surface. 8:53 p.m. ...
I was using a 55-200mm zoom lens. Even so, the moon was just a tiny part of the frame. It would have been nice to have a bigger zoom so the moon would really fill up the camera frame, and I wouldn't have to do a lot of enlarging. But that wasn't in the cards. This is the gear I have, so this is what I used. 8:56 p.m. ...
Now the lighted part of the moon was really slipping away quickly. 9:01 p.m. ...
And by 9:12 p.m., the total phase of the eclipse was under way ...
I was also looking around at the stars. Right to my south was Orion, the hunter. Could I get a picture of the constellation? I set the exposure for 20 seconds, pointed the camera in the right direction and pressed the shutter release. The result ...
Look at the middle of Orion's "sword," which hangs from his "belt." Those three nearly vertical stars. Right in the middle is the Orion Nebula. I enlarged the picture some more, adjusted the light, and I think I got the nebula ...
And if you want to see what the nebula really looks like, check this out. Please take a look. It is really beautiful. The Hubbell space telescope has taken some incredible images.
Anyway, by now I was freezing! My hands had gotten really cold, because I had to slip off my gloves from time to time to adjust the camera. Also, my tripod is good--but it's old. I got it about the time I got married. That's a few years ago. So it's hard to adjust the controls, which are a little wonky. Especially when your fingers are getting numb.
So after the total eclipse started, I went back inside for a while and warmed up. By the time I went back outside, it was 9:47 p.m., and the total eclipse was nearly over ...
I went back inside. I next went out at 10:15 p.m. ...
And before taking the final picture at 10:32 p.m., I went to a faster shutter speed to get the moon's surface details again ...
So if you missed the eclipse, if you were working, if it was cloudy, if you live on the wrong side of the earth or if you just plain forgot, that's what the eclipse was like. You will be happy, I'm sure, to hear that my hands defrosted nicely.
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2/14/2008 - V day over here
To one and to all, I hope you had a happy Valentine's Day. I wish you all happiness and good times.
Here, it was just another day at the office. My wife and I did our celebrating last night: I had to cover a district wrestling tournament tonight, so my wife and I went out Wednesday night, to the restaurant where we usually go for fish fries. This time, we both ordered angus burgers with swiss cheese and big portobello mushrooms. Yum!
Then we went back home. We finished a DVD ("Walt Disney's True-Life Adventures") and then watched two episodes of "One Step Beyond," a supernatural/paranormal TV program from the late 1950s, similar to the much better known "Twilight Zone."
I posted something different at my Vox blog yesterday, about a trip I wanted to make Friday but just couldn't do. So I was disappointed ... but as it turns out, it's OK now. Because we expect to make a very important trip of our own either on Friday or Saturday. Stay tuned!
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2/10/2008 - A cold, lonely season
This just in, everyone: I am getting really tired of winter.
Remember the good old days of summer? This weekend's weather made it seem like a thousand years ago. You've read it all here before: subzero cold, high winds, wind chill readings you normally associate with the Canadian arctic. In fact, that's where all this stuff came from.
The cold front blew through here Saturday evening, and temperatures plummeted. It got all the way up to -5F (-21C) for a high today, and the wind chill is dying down. Right now, it's "up" to -28F (-33F). Earlier today, it was at -40F (-40C). We didn't get much snow from it, but the snow that came got whipped up into big drifts--they had blizzard conditions in parts of the U.P. along Lake Superior, and some roads were shut down, as was the Mackinac Bridge. I had to climb over several big snowdrifts to get to the office today.
It's Feb. 10, so I think/pray this is the worst of it and that the weather will get better from here. I'm no big fan of winter, anyway.
About as brutal is the pace of high school sports this winter. Somehow, the season got condensed by one week--same number of games, but less time to play them all. And the weather has been rough, knocking the stuffing out of schedules. I've been out as much as four nights a week to cover high school basketball.
Fortunately, there does seem to be light at the end of the tunnel. The tournament season is coming quickly. While one or two of the teams I cover may advance, most won't, and my workload will start falling off quickly by the end of February. At last, I'll be able to spend some time at home! By mid-March, everything wil be over.
Then it goes from one extreme to the other--no high school sports for a month and a half, or whenever the snow melts and the grass grows enough to allow track, tennis and golf. We're up north, remember, and spring gets here late--track and golf won't get going until late April, if then.
Haven't heard from S for a while. She said she was suffering from dizzy spells after her operation and was going to check with her doctor about it.
The Wisconsin primary is coming up next week, and my mom is interested in voting. I called the city clerk where the nursing home is located, to make sure she will be on the list when they go to the nursing home to help the residents vote. She really likes Hillary Clinton; I'm not so wild about her, but it will make her feel happy to cast a vote for her.
The last bit of news is about the search for a new cat. I've been getting antsy to get another one; I miss having one I can play with and pet. Late last week, I was looking at a local daily paper while waiting for a basketball game to start, and I saw the ad from the local shelter, with pictures of the cats they currently have. They also have a website that shows the kitties.
I took that paper home and showed it to my wife. That particular shelter is about an hour away, but we have a shelter in town, and we agreed to visit it Saturday afternoon, before the wind changed and the arctic barged in.
We agreed beforehand that we wouldn't take any of them home with us--we have some clean-up work associated with the old cat that needs to be done before introducing a new cat. So this was a scouting trip.
We looked the cats and kitties over, made a few mental notes, took a couple pictures and talked about it all later. I think my wife wants to see the cats in the shelter north of Iron Mountain, the ones in the paper.
It was a little sad--going to the local shelter, seeing all the cats meowing and trying to get your attention, reaching out with their paws, rubbing themselves against your fingers, licking your fingers ... and then not leaving with one. (We did not dare pick any of them up; it would have been impossible to tear ourselves away after the initial stages of bonding.)
Of course, I would have been quite happy to take about a half dozen of them home. I like cats.
We didn't get one on Saturday. Next time, though, may be the big day. I'm really looking forward to that. It's the day when spring arrives in my heart.
Because it's really cold and lonely now. I'm missing Frisky a lot.
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2/5/2008 - Film festival gets delayed
It's going to be Plan B for us this week.
Plan A was to take a mini-vacation. It involved getting out of Dodge for a day or so and driving south a couple hours to visit my friend, S, and her husband.
Not that our plan was very ambitious ... or exciting, for that matter. Once we got there, we'd visit for a while, then go out to dinner. After that, we'd go back to their place and watch a few movies. The next morning, my wife and I would do a little shopping and then drive back home.
That was the plan, anyway. In the last few weeks, S told me she needed to have gallbladder surgery. That was scheduled for last week, and since she felt she would be back on her feet pretty quickly, we didn't change or delay our plan.
Until today, that is.
S sent me a note around noon today, asking that we delay the trip for a few weeks. "I'm not recovering as speedily as I had hoped," she wrote, explaining that she can't sit for more than 15 minutes without pain--and she wanted to enjoy our time together. This morning, she woke up feeling dizzy. If that persists, she will be seeing her doctor.
I wrote her back, telling her not to worry about us. We have been talking about a visit since November, so it's been delayed before and we all survived.
In any case, I went on, this is a busy time at work because we're working on a special (annual) business section. On top of that, the local sports schedule is ridiculously crazily busy. In late March or April, things will be much quieter, so I would be able to really relax and not have a thousand things on my mind--or waiting on my desk when I return.
In fact, my wife and I are talking about taking a drive out of town, anyway. Our destination is a U.P. town that still has a fabric store, like Marquette or Escanaba. I wanted to get to an OfficeMax or a Staples store, too.
I didn't tell S, but ever since I proposed that we make our visit on Feb. 5, I had been kicking myself. It only dawned on me a few days later that Feb. 5 is "Super Tuesday" in the U.S. presidential campaign. On such occasions I'm usually watching closely as the votes are tallied.
"Damn!" (or words to that effect) I said to myself when I realized what day my visit was planned for.
But then I put it out of my mind and never mentioned it to S. After all, I reasoned, I would be missing it because of something more special. Anyway, I could catch up on things later, while we driving back to the motel, and the motel room has a TV.
Anyway, it's plan B now. I'll watch the returns tomorrow night, and then on Wednesday afternoon I can take my wife fabric shopping.
I suppose I can tell you some of the movies I was planning to take along:
--"Yellow Submarine." Because S's husband is a big Beatles fan, and that movie is so colorful and clever--a real trip.
--"The Petrified Forest." From 1936. Humphrey Bogart's first big film, opposite Leslie Howard and Bette Davis. A great story about two people falling in love at a desert gas station--and then escaped prisoners take them hostage.
--"Strange Cargo." From the 1930s, also, with Clark Gable, Joan Crawford and Peter Lorre. It's about some escaped prisoners, but this time from Devil's Island off the South American coast. And one of them is a strange, spiritual presence.
--"The Razor's Edge." This is the Bill Murray version of the Somerset Maugham story from the 1980s. Murray plays it straight in this one, about a World War I veteran who goes to Tibet to look for a deeper meaning in life. It's a topic I can relate to.
--"Monty Python and the Holy Grail." Of all the Python films, this is the craziest and most surreal. Two years ago, when I visited S at "the crazy house," I took it along, and we tried to watch it. But everyone else just had too short an attention span on this night--too distracted.
--"Kundun," about the life of the current Dalai Lama, especially his younger years, how he was chosen, how and why he met the Communist Chinese government, which wanted to take over Tibet--and how he eventually fled to India.
--"Modern Times," the Charlie Chaplin film from the 1930s. A masterpiece about our modern age (as it was in the 1930s--wonder how Chaplin would do the story today).
There may be another film or two, but those are the main ones. Of course, I planned to take along more movies than we could possibly watch in two or three visits. But those are some of my favorites, and I wanted to share them.
The delay of the trip means, of course, I'll now have enough time to select a few more for my film festival! I'm still asking myself why I didn't include W.C. Fields' "It's a Gift."
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2/2/2008 - Memories of Frisky
HELP WANTED
One good kittycat. Secure, long-term position in loving home for the right applicant.
As you may know, we lost our cat a week ago Saturday. We were sad, of course, but we are doing a lot better. We have already decided that we will be getting another kitten/cat from our local shelter--once we get over the hurt of Frisky's death a little more.
Frisky, after all, was no ordinary cat. No indeed! She had many talents and skills, some learned, some picked up over the years. She definitely had a personality.
She liked to climb and explore. Did not like to be held. She would tolerate being held for a while, but then she would "get springs," as my wife called it. Many times I would see a little scratch on her breast, the legacy of Frisky's kicking feet when she felt she had been held too long and my wife didn't get the hint in time. Her last little scratch is fading away and getting hard to see.
I never got a picture of that. I never got a picture of her helping my wife read in bed. She would get in bed with a good book and Frisky under her arm. While she did not being held, she didn't seem to mind that, and when I came in to kiss her (my wife, that is) good-night, I would keep my distance if Frisky was there--lest she decide to run off.
The first nine or so years of Frisky's life with us were not documented, not be me, at least. But once I got my first digital camera in 2001, Frisky was a favorite subject. I used photography to document Frisky's many talents.
These photos are in approximately chronological order.
She was very good at holding down the bed. Especially stacks of freshly folded towels ...
While I never got a picture of her "helping my wife read," I did get this picture of her on the pillow ...
On Christmas Eve 2001, she posed very nicely on the post at the bottom of the staircase. That's Maggie closer to the camera ...
Frisky was very good about testing the quality of the different pieces of clothing we buy. All we had to do was place it somewhere flat, and she would be quick to try it out ...
How to get Frisky to come out of hiding? Very, very easy, and it didn't involve opening tuna cans. All my wife had to do was hold up her slicker brush, and Frisky would jump up. She loved her slicker brush ...
Whenever we had vanilla ice cream, she was very good about helping finish off the melted cream at the bottom of the bowl. Waste not, want not ...
I never got a picture of one of Frisky's strangest habits. Shoestrings. Honest!
When there was an discarded shoestring in the house, she would take it and carry it around in her mouth--while meowing with a closed mouth. I don't know how many times we were in bed and suddenly hear a meow, meow off in the distance. It would be Frisky, climbing the steps with a shoestring in her mouth.
After she died, my wife told me the time she was replacing zippers in my jacket and several others. Frisky claimed the old zipper from my jacket--picking it out among the others--and started carrying it.
Also, when I got home from work in the late afternoon and changed shirts or took off a sweater and left it on the bed, Frisky soon would be curled up on it. So when we went out of town for a day or two or three, we would leave an unwashed shirt or two on the bed. When we came back, we could see Frisky had been lying on it. It had our scent, you see.
Here, Frisky (and Maggie, too, for that matter) helped my wife show off some of her quilts. She was always ready to get her ears scratched ...
She also helped us at Christmas time, inspecting my wife's new wreath ...
And when a mouse found its way into the house ... you might as well turn off the TV, because you'll never see anything more entertaining than that. It was the four C's: chase, command, conquer and consume. In this picture, we are at the conquer stage ...
She would come around to visit sometimes while we were watching TV, and one night she found her own special vantage point. Her skybox, you might say. We kept it up after that ... until last week, when I took it down. It was too hard to look at it...
Would you believe that Frisky was able to look in two directions simultaneously? I know it sounds impossible, but you can't argue with pictures ...
Here, Frisky helps my wife get a few extra winks in the morning ...
By now, I had a new camera, and the Frisky pictures got a little better. It helped me get a picture of her next to my wife, getting her tummy rubbed. She loved that, too ...
It was spring, and the smell of fresh, new, young grass was in the air. Frisky would put her paws on the front door screen and look outside, so we moved a kitchen chair for her convenience ...
That is the season for "grass parties"--when my wife would take several blades of fresh new grass inside. The cats were all excited, meowing happily. Here, Frisky is hooking down my wife's hand with her paw so the grass will be closer...
Frisky was never interested in going outside, though. We never had to worry about that. Last April, though, a rare moment: My wife carried Frisky out onto the back porch ...
Those are all treasured memories, and we have many more. We will get another cat. That much is definite. But we are realistic. Frisky was unique, and they broke the mold with her.
Our new cat will be unique in his/her own ways. That is as it should be. And we will love him/her. That is how it should be, also. With our history, the cat who decides to adopt us will be part of our family into the 2020s.
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1/30/2008 - In search of terrycloth
Life is going on, as it must. The worst of the sadness over our cat's death is behind us, and life is starting to get closer to normal at home. Not that you ever forget a little friend like that, but now we are remembering the wonderful memories she left behind.
When we talk about Frisky now, it is more with fondness than sadness. Not that we don't miss her, because we sure do. But we move on, and soon we will have to make a major decision: whether to get another cat, even though we still have Maggie, who has been with us for 15 years. That's going to need some serious thought.
(I promised some photos of Frisky, but this post got too long. Next time.)
Today has been a monumentally wintry day. We got about three or four inches of snow last night, which isn't much, but it was part of a weather system that brought 50 mph winds to the region and temperatures diving below zero. This morning, it was -16F (-27C) this morning when we got up, and the wind was howling. The wind chill was rated at -42F (-41C). Snow had drifted about a foot or so in the front walk, so I shoveled that this morning before walking to work.
It's just a block or so, but I was walking right into that -42F wind chill. The wind was blowing really hard at that time, and some big trucks were driving past, too. It was a chilling experience. On top of that, the wind had blown up a three-foot-tall drift in front of the office door, and I had to barge through that.
On Thursday, I'm taking my wife to the hospital in Iron Mountain for a medical test. More on that later. At the same time, my friend S is having gallbladder surgery down in Oshkosh. That surgery is much easier for the patient than it was 30 years ago when I had it--I have a big scar on the side of my belly as its legacy. Today, they do it with a laparoscope, with just a little hole.
We (all of us) are assuming S will be feeling well enough next week for visitors, because we are driving down to visit her and her husband. We last visited last August and went to a number of places. Since it's mid-winter, this visit won't be anywhere near as ambitious. The main events are going out to dinner together and then watching a few movies. We drive down next Tuesday and drive back Wednesday. And we won't stay at that ultra-lame Super 8 again.
When we visited last summer, S gave my wife a necklace she had made as a present. While thinking about it last fall, I suddenly realized what my wife could make as a gift for her and her husband: My wife makes big terrycloth bath towels. Big, thirsty ones, about the size of beach towels. S and her husband could use them at home after baths or showers, when using their hot tub and at the nude beach they visit in summer. I think they would get a lot of use.
One can be purple (which seems to be S's favorite color) and the other can be gold--with a Green Bay Packer fabric for binding at the top and bottom. Her husband is a devoted Packers fan. They sell a variety of fabrics with Packer colors and logos on it, and it's quite popular among the faithful.
So I talked the idea over with my wife, and she agreed it would be a good idea. But the stores up here don't sell the colors of terrycloth we need, so we decided to drive down to a fabric shop in Rhinelander to get it.
Then life intervened--a long football playoff season and a trip to Detroit for the state finals. Basketball starting right away. My father-in-law's death. One thing after another. With time running out before out visit, we decided last Saturday we'll make the trip by hook or by crook. Then our kitty died. We were heartbroken, but we agreed we had to go ahead with the shopping trip.
So can you imagine how we felt once we finally got to the shopping center with fabric store ... and discovered that the Hancock Fabrics store had closed! Nothing inside. And there are no other fabric stores in the area that have what we need. Grrrr!
My wife didn't seem surprised, though. Fabric shops are closing all over, she said. People simply don't make clothes any more. It's cheaper to buy stuff imported from the other side of the world. It's not hard to find quilt fabric shops--a lot of people around here quilt. But fabrics and patterns for clothing--that's another matter.
So during next week's trip, we plan to stop at some hobby/fabric stores in the Green Bay/Fox Cities area to get what we need. Then she can make the towels so we can present them during our next visit, whenever that is.
But that's a secret. Mum's the word. OK?
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1/27/2008 - Heaven gets a good kitty
(First posted at Vox when Efx2 was down last night)
Last time I wrote, it was about a fun time we had last weekend.
This weekend is a very sad one at our house. The Angel of Death came to our house Saturday morning ... and when she left, she carried our kitty's soul with her.
Her name was Frisky. And this isn't going to be easy to write. It's hard to see the keyboard with your eyes tearing up. My emotions ... I'm just very sad. But I knew it had to happen. We got Frisky in February 1992. Sixteen years ago.
She replaced our first cat, named Princess, whom we had gotten in early 1976. She had lived with us for 16 years, but suddenly she was an old cat. She lost a lot of weight--just skin and bones. The vet tried to rehydrate her, but it didn't do much good. We told her to put Princess to sleep. And I cried so hard. We both did. Our eyes were red and raw. She was, after all, our first child. Even if she was a kitty, she was ours, and we loved her very much.
It was midwinter, there was snow all around, and there was no way we could dig a hole to bury her skinny little body. In the end, we placed her into one of those heavy old cardboard beer bottle creates (Pabst Blue Ribbon longnecks), took her into the woods and placed her on a favorite blanket under a tree, where she could hear the birds singing and feel the sun shine down on her in spring. And that's where we left Princess go for all eternity.
It was a very sad house for a month. But then we decided it was time to get a new cat. We went to the animal shelter near Iron Mountain with the kids (they were both in school then) and looked the cats over. We found this young, tawny, ticked cat with a soft meow. A slim angular head like an Abyssinian. David came up with the name. He called her Frisky because she was jumping all over the place. Very active. It seemed like a good name.
About six months later, we got a second cat. A long-haired calico kitten. Just a little thing. For a while we couldn't come up with a name. She had this odd habit--she liked to suck my oldest son's shirt. One day I was home, sick with the flu, when the lightbulb came on. "We ought to name her Maggie," after the Simpsons' baby who is forever sucking on her pacifier.
Since then, Frisky and Maggie have been members of our household. My oldest graduated, went to college and then took a job near Detroit. My youngest graduated, stayed at home for a few years and then moved into his own apartment. Frisky and Maggie stayed with us and time passed. Over 15 years.
Late last fall, I observed that Frisky (who was never a fat cat) was getting thinner. Lighter. She didn't eat that much. Sometimes she hardly ate at all. I pointed it out to my wife. Was it time to start saying goodbye? Was it time to start bracing ourselves emotionally for that inevitable day?
Around Christmas, I noticed that her fur wasn't as silky smooth as it had been all these years, and that there were places where she didn't want us to brush her. I started saying, "Our poor kitty!" when I saw her. Then her mouth started looking deformed on one side. We talked about it again. But Frisky didn't seem to be in any pain. She was jumping up onto chairs and up to the kitchen table. She wanted water, and we had to change it several times a day for her.
And she suddenly had her appetite back. She had lost some teeth, and regular cat food was too hard for her to eat. But she liked chicken. For the last couple weeks, my wife would cut up chicken breasts into little tiny chunks for her to eat off a saucer. And she was suddenly interested in milk--for the very first time. Whenever I got out milk for our supper (one of my duties), Frisky was there, demanding some. And if I wasn't fast enough, she would jump up on the chair and then the table and start lapping it up from one of the glasses that had just been poured. That happened just Thursday night, I think. She was curious about our food. "You don't want this," my wife would say. "Kitties don't eat chili."
I was having lunch Friday when I saw her sitting by her water bowl. But she was just sitting there. Like she had fallen asleep. She was there for a long time. Friday evening, she was curled up in one of the armchairs--with Maggie next to her, also curled up. My wife had put Frisky there. But she climbed upstairs on her own Friday night. When I went to the bathroom in the middle of the night, she was there on the floor, lying down. I bent down to pet her head, and she looked up a little.
But she clearly was losing strength, and I could tell the end was coming. I got up Saturday morning and went to the computer (as I usually do when I get up) to check the mail, the news and the blogs. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw Frisky slowly walking to a piece of carpet located just outside the bathroom, where both the cats like to sleep at night--so they can keep tabs on us. A little later, I went over and petted her for a minute or two. She was just lying there. I went into the bathroom to shave, and when I turned on the razor, I saw her raise her head for a moment to look at me. Then she lay down again. I petted her and went to work.
That morning my wife took a shower. When she came out, she sat on the floor next to Frisky and petted her for a minute or so. She told me later that Frisky's breathing was very shallow. About 11:30 or so, I came back--we were going on a shopping trip to Rhinelander. My wife was upstairs getting ready, and I went to check on Frisky. She was lying on the same piece of carpet, very still. I put my hand on her--and discovered that the kitty spirit that lived inside for 16 years was gone. I was on all fours on the floor, petting her with my left hand, and started to cry. "I'm sorry, kittycat," I told her. "I'm sorry."
My wife went into the basement and came back with the same cardboard beer crate that once carried Princess. We put some old carpet at the bottom and I picked up Frisky's body, hugged it to my chest, sobbed for a while, petted her fur, kissed her and then put her inside.
A little later, we found a place in the pines along a road. Somewhere where the birds will be singing again in a few months and the sun will keep her spirit warm. We waded through a foot and a half of snow to a site that we thought would be nice. I put down the beer crate, picked up the blanket and that little thin cat body, hugged and petted her one last time and then placed her at the base of a small tree. We stood there for a minute or so, holding hands, trying not to cry. And then we turned around, grabbed the beer crate and trudged back through the snow to the car.
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I've taken many pictures of Frisky over the years. And I have many memories. In a few days, I will share some of them.
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